{"id":1058,"date":"2008-05-16T10:51:53","date_gmt":"2008-05-16T15:51:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/womantalk.wordpress.com\/?p=1058"},"modified":"2008-05-16T10:51:53","modified_gmt":"2008-05-16T15:51:53","slug":"going-against-the-current-in-oc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=1058","title":{"rendered":"Going Against the Current in OC"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are house hunting for the third summer in a row, and while I LOVE seeing the insides of homes, it is a little wearying.<\/p>\n<p>We have been happy in our 3B+den\/3B, but our lease is up July 1 and Chad&#8217;s brother is going his separate way. We would like to take this opportunity to reduce our rent, but it&#8217;s a double whammy to move into a 2B\/2B and pay less than what we pay now. Right now we we&#8217;re paying $1750 for our portion of a 1800 square foot place and we&#8217;re looking for a $1600 place, which will likely be under 1000 square feet.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s quite a bit of down-sizing.<\/p>\n<p>So we&#8217;ve eye-balling furniture and starting to think about getting rid of things. Although honestly, nothing&#8217;s been rid of yet. Giant-sized corner desk, anyone?<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve been considering this move since before Christmas, so emotionally I think I&#8217;ve adjusted &#8211; and I like the idea of moving into a more affordable place and worrying less about making money. My current boss wants me to continue working from home, but we&#8217;ll see how that works out. My friends keep reminding me how busy a baby makes you &#8211; honestly, I can hardly remember. really? I won&#8217;t be able to squeeze in 20 hours of work time a week at home?<\/p>\n<p>Ideally, we&#8217;d like to settle down for three years while Bella finishes up high school and then make a move towards LA, possibly in the Pasadena area.<\/p>\n<p>Bella on the other hand has raged and raged against the move. It is a third summer in a row to have to spend packing and unpacking, but the bigger story I suspect is that moving into an apartment and seeming &#8220;poor&#8221; is rubbing her teenage fur the wrong way. Ah well.<\/p>\n<p>But Chad and I are reluctant to move as well &#8211; especially considering that the lease is up three weeks after the baby is due &#8211; so we have done some creative brainstorming. Chad and I have even entertained the option of inviting one of Bella&#8217;s Yucca friends to move out here, rent Chad&#8217;s brother&#8217;s room, and live with us next year to go to school. Probably luckily for all of us, that idea didn&#8217;t pan out.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/i108.photobucket.com\/albums\/n18\/womantalk\/newcondo3.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard for me to squeeze into a smaller place, too, mentally and physically. And to constantly explain to people that yes, it actually makes sense to move into a smaller place rather than a larger one with a baby on the way. That no, we will not have a nursery, and that no, we have not picked a &#8220;theme&#8221; or colors. (Okay, I made up a theme and colors up to satisfy Chad&#8217;s colleagues at work: forest colors and insects.) I know that the norm is to move into bigger and bigger places&#8230; that norm is especially deafening here in south Orange county.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/i108.photobucket.com\/albums\/n18\/womantalk\/newcondo1.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>On the upside, I think we might have found the place. You can see the place <a href=\"http:\/\/orangecounty.craigslist.org\/apa\/671099072.html\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>. We saw this super clean condo last weekend and have been mulling it over ever since. Last night we walked Giselle over, because the owners hadn&#8217;t wanted any pets, but they did see, love, and OK Giselle &#8211; seeing that she&#8217;s HARDLY a dog at 3.5 pounds. So now the only downside is that we had thought about extending our lease until August 1 to give us a little time to adjust after the baby is born &#8211; but they really want a July 1 move-in. I suppose that&#8217;s not such a big deal.<\/p>\n<p>But the thought of finalizing: signing a year&#8217;s lease more than an month in advance, is still making me nervous. I do like the stainless steel appliances and the pergo (wood) floors&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i108.photobucket.com\/albums\/n18\/womantalk\/newcondo2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are house hunting for the third summer in a row, and while I LOVE seeing the insides of homes, it is a little wearying. 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