{"id":1407,"date":"2008-12-04T11:06:45","date_gmt":"2008-12-04T16:06:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/womantalk.wordpress.com\/?p=1407"},"modified":"2008-12-04T11:06:45","modified_gmt":"2008-12-04T16:06:45","slug":"its-called-sleeping-in-the-bed-you-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=1407","title":{"rendered":"It&#039;s Called Sleeping in the Bed You Make"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I got an strange email the other day through Facebook. Possibly the strangest one I&#8217;ve received since I got online in 1991.<\/p>\n<p>I was contacted by the current wife of a man I dated over twenty years ago. A woman I&#8217;ve never met, barely even heard of, contacted me because her husband and I were an item back in college.<\/p>\n<p>My sister thinks it&#8217;s brave that she emailed me. I would choose other words.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just strange &#8211; it&#8217;s sad and very, very insecure.<\/p>\n<p>She asked me to either NOT communicate with her husband or to include her in the loop if I did. That&#8217;s right, she wants me to cc her on any cyber communication I might have with her husband. Granted, he and I were in touch very briefly OVER A YEAR AGO over possible work opportunities, but we have not seen eachother (or even emailed) since.<\/p>\n<p>I think this bodes ill for their relationship, but really, how can she expect to trust a man WHO CHEATED ON HIS FIRST WIFE AND TWO CHILDREN TO BE WITH HER?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got an strange email the other day through Facebook. Possibly the strangest one I&#8217;ve received since I got online in 1991. I was contacted by the current wife of a man I dated over twenty years ago. A woman &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=1407\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[98],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1407","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1407","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1407"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1407\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1407"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1407"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1407"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}