{"id":2534,"date":"2010-02-04T18:20:31","date_gmt":"2010-02-04T23:20:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/womantalk.wordpress.com\/?p=2534"},"modified":"2010-02-04T18:20:31","modified_gmt":"2010-02-04T23:20:31","slug":"letter-to-christian-at-20-months","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=2534","title":{"rendered":"Letter to Christian at 20 Months"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/i108.photobucket.com\/albums\/n18\/womantalk\/IMG_7059.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"213\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dear sweet Christian,<\/p>\n<p>You are really giving me\u00c2\u00a0 run for my money these few months &#8211; maybe that&#8217;s why there hasn&#8217;t been a letter to you in a while &#8211; I hardly have a moment to sit in front of the computer. You&#8217;ve become a fast runner and capable stair-climber. You love the slide at the park, but you still refuse to swing.<\/p>\n<p>You are charming, despotic, and still very, very communicative. According to Bella (Sister! you will shout at any mention of her &#8211; while making the sign for &#8220;sister&#8221; at the same time. Even funnier is when you yell up for her from the bottom of the stairs, like you&#8217;ve seen me do, BELLA! <em>pause<\/em> BELLA! and so on and so on&#8230;), her psych textbook says that babies go from one word, to two words, and then jump directly into complete sentences.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what&#8217;s happening right now and it&#8217;s fascinating. You do have a large arsenal of two-word phrases at your disposal (openit! holdya? sitdown! downstairs!), but now you are starting to string words together to make meaning. The other night you saw a picture of your friend Anna sleeping and you said slowly, Anna&#8230; sleeping&#8230; too.<\/p>\n<p>Of course this major developmental leap is wreaking havoc with your emotional and physical capabilities &#8211; the old &#8220;one step forward, two steps back&#8221; business. Suddenly, you&#8217;re stumbling and hitting the pavement on a regular basis &#8211; EVERY DAY you go to bed with a new lump on your forehead or a new skinned patch on your knees. I know this will pass, but it&#8217;s alarming to watch you tumble so often &#8211; I mean, it must be a boy thing, because I don&#8217;t remember Bella having goose eggs or black eyes &#8211; ever.<\/p>\n<p>Emotionally too, you are more aware of what you want, and frustrated that we can&#8217;t understand all that you say. The sign language bridge only works to a certain extent &#8211; and honestly, I think that you have so many burgeoning emotions and desires that sometimes you don&#8217;t know what you want, so there&#8217;s nothing I can help you with, except to hold and comfort you until the storm has passed.<\/p>\n<p>The pottying is going well. Last time we went to LA for the day, we used guess how many diapers?<\/p>\n<p>ZERO! You were dry from the previous night, until we got back from LA &#8211; which means that you went pee in public bathrooms SEVEN times that day (and pooped in his potty before we had left the house). That was quite a day. Of course, we missed a bunch of pees when we got home. I&#8217;ve got to remember to offer you the potty more regularly. You don&#8217;t want to miss anything, not a second, so you don&#8217;t let me know about pees until after you&#8217;ve soaked your diaper sometimes. Although we seem to have more success when you run around without a diaper than with one. Yesterday you were diaper-free (not even training pants) and you took yourself to the potty three times. A fourth time you came back holding your potty, saying LOOKIT! POOPOO! Sure enough. You&#8217;d pooped a second time. I&#8217;m just glad you didn&#8217;t drop it.<\/p>\n<p>Enough potty talk. You&#8217;re sleeping and I need to work on the taxes. I love you buddy. You bring smiles to my face all day long.<\/p>\n<p>Love,<\/p>\n<p>Mama<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/i108.photobucket.com\/albums\/n18\/womantalk\/IMG_6782.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"213\" \/><\/p>\n<p>P.S. Both pictures of Christian taken by Sierra three days ago at the Huntington Gardens. New camera!<\/p>\n<p>P.P. S. Mud stomping at the last week&#8217;s Waldorf in the Woods playgroup &#8211; shortly after this video footage was shot &#8211; you fell, the older boys kept stompin&#8217; and splashing&#8217;, and you got COMPLETELY covered in mud and speedy action had to be taken to get the mud out of your mouth and ears.<\/p>\n<p>[youtube=http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=tAUrL8i8SxM]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear sweet Christian, You are really giving me\u00c2\u00a0 run for my money these few months &#8211; maybe that&#8217;s why there hasn&#8217;t been a letter to you in a while &#8211; I hardly have a moment to sit in front of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=2534\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian-holden"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2534\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}