{"id":2865,"date":"2010-05-04T16:35:49","date_gmt":"2010-05-04T21:35:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/womantalk.wordpress.com\/?p=2865"},"modified":"2010-05-04T16:35:49","modified_gmt":"2010-05-04T21:35:49","slug":"the-monique-murdy-cycle-of-acceptance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=2865","title":{"rendered":"The Monique-Murdy Cycle of Acceptance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Somehow I always seem to have more of an appetite for travel than the rest of my family, which seems (to me) easily solved by hopping off for a travel adventure on my own with baby in tow. But it always takes some time for Bella and Chad to come around to the idea. It&#8217;s not exactly the Kubler-Ross grief cycle, but close!<\/p>\n<p>Resistance stage:<br \/>\nChad: We can&#8217;t afford it.<br \/>\nBella: You CAN&#8217;T go Mommmmm.<\/p>\n<p>Bargaining stage:<br \/>\nChad: You can go if I don&#8217;t miss Christian&#8217;s birthday.<br \/>\nBella: You can go if you stay for less than two weeks. MOMMMMM, you CAN&#8217;T GO!<\/p>\n<p>Acceptance stage:<br \/>\nChad: I have some great bike rides planned for while you&#8217;re gone, and I&#8217;m going keep every surface in the house completely empty!<br \/>\nBella: If you see some knock-off TIffany&#8217;s jewelry, I like necklaces &#8211; especially those silver rings that hang on a chain &#8211; wait, I have it pulled up on my computer right now&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Somehow I always seem to have more of an appetite for travel than the rest of my family, which seems (to me) easily solved by hopping off for a travel adventure on my own with baby in tow. But it &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=2865\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105,106,126],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2865","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-says-bella","category-says-chad","category-travel"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2865","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2865"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2865\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}