{"id":554,"date":"2007-02-14T19:36:09","date_gmt":"2007-02-15T00:36:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/womantalk.wordpress.com\/2007\/02\/14\/wedding-progress\/"},"modified":"2007-02-14T19:36:09","modified_gmt":"2007-02-15T00:36:09","slug":"wedding-progress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=554","title":{"rendered":"wedding progress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Just to balance out last night&#8217;s black post I thought I&#8217;d list some of the wedding planning that <em>has<\/em> been accomplished.<\/p>\n<p>1. Chad&#8217;s getting a 4 mm platinum wedding band (size eight) from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bluenile.com\/?gclid=CL6Guf6Jr4oCFRnSIgodMUZXqQ\" target=\"_blank\">bluenile.com<\/a>. He thought he was a gold man, but changed his mind when he tried on rings at the local jeweler. We didn&#8217;t plan it this way, but now his band will match my engagement\/wedding ring. And as much as I want to support local business, the local store said his ring would be $1500-$2000 and we can get the same ring at bluenile.com for $700.<\/p>\n<p>2. We&#8217;ve finalized the wedding ceremony and reception guest list. The wedding ceremony will be attended by family in Joshua Tree National Park. The next night will be a big party with Korean BBQ (at my house). We created three excel worksheets (does it always have to be three? is it possible to add a fourth worksheet?- couldn&#8217;t do it, though I tried) One lists all the invites by household with columns for names, # of adults, # of children, and the mailing address. Another will keep track of gifts and thank-you cards and the third is a guest list is for my shower (!!) which a friend has started to plan.<\/p>\n<p>3. The bridal shower will not involve any games &#8211; or at least none that involve clothpins or toilet paper. Looks like it will be a raucous camp-out in the spring. Whooping around a campfire, tearful story-telling, booze, and lots of hugs and love in the outdoors.<\/p>\n<p>4. One hundred pale grey drawstring organza bags arrived in the post yesterday. Thanks Sue!<\/p>\n<p>5. My brother, sister, and I have decided to pitch in together and get airline tix so a favorite auntie and her son can attend the wedding.<\/p>\n<p>6. The first installment of stationary has arrived. Save-the-date cards will be sent shortly. Envelopes are &#8220;sage&#8221; and the cards are &#8220;cement.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>7. We&#8217;ve started cleaning the yard (= we planted the christmas tree&#8230;) I&#8217;ve also had some thoughts about renting or borrowing a tractor to level the backyard and building a retaining wall. Possibly too ambitious and\/or expensive, although a contractor friend said it would add value to the house.<\/p>\n<p>8. I&#8217;ve started stocking up on the alcohol; each trip to Costco I pick up another bottle of booze. The first purchase was Blue Sapphire gin.<\/p>\n<p>9. Got a lead on a cake-maker.<\/p>\n<p>10. Inquired about flowers at the local market, just because driving to Los Angeles the day of my wedding for flowers seems like it might need a plan B. The local flower guy says that he can&#8217;t drop the price, but his prices are good so $200 would buy me eight 5-gallon buckets full of seasonal flowers.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the flowers I got from the flower guy this last weekend. He grows them all himself. (I am continually impressed with the quality of photo I get from my razr!)<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i108.photobucket.com\/albums\/n18\/womantalk\/02-12-07_1306.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just to balance out last night&#8217;s black post I thought I&#8217;d list some of the wedding planning that has been accomplished. 1. Chad&#8217;s getting a 4 mm platinum wedding band (size eight) from bluenile.com. He thought he was a gold &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/?p=554\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[73,133],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-554","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marriage","category-wedding-for-2000"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/554","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=554"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/554\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=554"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=554"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womantalk.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=554"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}