Category Archives: mothering

This Calls for a Trip to the Mall

As much as I love the weather and the location, moving is hard. It’s learning where the post office is, finding my way to the freeway, and setting up a new kitchen. It’s Bella finding out that her best friend … Continue reading

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Federal Study Indicates Moms Should Stay at Home

Another NYTimes article providing statistical weight to something teachers and mothers already intuitively know: kids who spend time in day care are more disruptive in the classroom than kids with mothers at home. The article is titled, “Poor Behavior is … Continue reading

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How to Improve Your Child's Test Scores

For those of you with children in the public school system in California, state testing is just around the corner (end of April for us). These days, at the middle school where I work, a student’s CST scores pretty much … Continue reading

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how to make a gorgeous birthday cake

Our first day in San Fran, Chad and I had the fortune to happen upon a birthday party in Songbae’s office building. The guy who was celebrating his birthday was not there – no doubt at home, celebrating without us, … Continue reading

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does that look like a face of rejection to you?

(Do you see the big vein running up the middle of Bella’s forehead? That was there when she was born and I really thought it would go away. Don’t ever mention it to her, okay?) and moments later…

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even cuter…

I took Bella to meet her today. Chad and I decided that the surprise element was too dangerous. Too much risk of rejection. Bella says she is not going to accept the puppy, but has named her Giselle. We are … Continue reading

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you won't believe how cute she is

I met her today! Besides I needed a dose of cuteness to offset the gross foot. (My boob appears large compared to her head, but I swear it’s not that big – the breast I mean.)

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sssshhh…

I think Chad and I are going to get a little baby chocolate chihuahua puppy for Bella – as “wedding” gift. Her nickname is Little Miss Naked because she is short-haired and her mama is long-haired. By my friend’s account, … Continue reading

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how my 13-year old "dates"

Mom: so he asked you out? Are you going to kiss him? Bella: Eeeeeuuuw. No way. Mom: Hold his hand? Bella: Hug him. Maybe. Later… They “went out” for two days, and then Bella “dumped” him. Ah… I remember those … Continue reading

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this is me helping bella with her algebra

Bella: Mom, you have to help me study for my test tomorrow. I’m serious. Me: Fine. What are you studying? Bella: We’re factoring polynomials. Me: OK, factoring polynomials is fun. Bella: That’s what my teacher said! (surprised that we would … Continue reading

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