Waldorf Parent/Toddler Playgroup Guidelines

Waldorf Playgroup Guidelines and Notes

Mission: To create an imaginative, joyful Waldorf playgroup every week for our children, in feeling and in practice.

Logistics
1. The playgroup will meet weekly.
2. At least one parent will attend and participate in the playgroup with the child(ren).
3. The group will consist of parents and children together. Each family will take on the responsibility of hosting and leading the playgroup once each cycle.
4. Because of the level of commitment involved, each family should intend on participating for one entire cycle.
5. Near the conclusion of one cycle, there will be a brief parent meeting to debrief and preview for the upcoming cycle.
6. The group shall consist of about 8 children who are walking.
7. If there is more interest, there will be a waiting list. In the meantime, those families are welcome to try the playgroup should there be an absence of one of the regular members.
8. If you cannot attend a playgroup you should contact the parent leader for that week, so that he or she can contact a family on the waiting list.
9. Each child should bring a piece of fresh fruit to contribute to the playgroup snack (washed please).
10. Each family is asked to contribute $30 per cycle to the general fund to pay for bulk orders of natural craft materials. If the group disbands or if a member leaves, he or she will receive her portion of the money left or the equivalent in supplies. (We will be putting in group orders to Mercurious. If you would like to put in an individual order, please see Jeannie Lee.)
11. Each family is asked to arrive 15 minutes early so the children can run off excess energy outside before the lead parent for that day’s playgroup sings the child inside.
12. Each lead parent will have the assistance of another parent. Each week’s assistant will be the following week’s lead parent.

Guidelines for Hosting
1. All cellphones should be turned off. TVs and computer monitors should be covered.
2. All plastic and electronic toys should be put away out of sight or covered. The remaining toys should be wooden and Waldorf in character. Open-ended toys are preferred.
3. The lead parent should focus on keeping the children reined in and engaged. Calm, attentive energy is encouraged.
4. All other parents are there to support the lead parent and side conversations should be kept to a minimum.
5. Each family should try and contribute what Waldorf-type toys they feel comfortable sharing as each household builds up their own sets of toys.
6.

Posted in waldorf | 1 Comment

Miracles of Miracles

A recipe while I’m out backpacking…

I made a dairy-free quiche with a whole wheat crust twice last week. The reason I made it a second time was because Bella had a slice of the first quiche and offhandedly said, Good quiche Mom.

!!!

Did I mention that I used NO MILK, NO CHEESE, NO BUTTER and that the crust was whole wheat AND HOMEMADE??

So I better jot down the recipe while I’m thinking of it, because it was a bit of a tossed together affair.

I call it Mama’s Onion and Chorizo Quiche and I made it in a regular glass rectangular dish because my second quiche dish was out on loan.

Crust

1 1/2 cups whole wheat pastry flour

1/2 tsp salt

4 Tbs non-butter (I used Earth Balance once and doubled the oil the second time)

1/4 oil (I used a nice olive oil once and canola once – both worked fine)

4-5 Tbs ice cold water

Add the flour, salt, and butter to the food processor. Pulse a couple times. Add 1 tablespoon of water and pulse once. Repeat until you have a “shaggy” mass (that’s what all the recipe books say). Scoop it out and without overhandling the dough, press it quickly into the bottom of  your baking dish.

The Quiche

5 eggs

1 1/2 cups soymilk

1/2 length of pork chorizo (I think probably anything made with chorizo, like sausage or bacon, tastes yummy…)

1 large onion

Saute the onion until brown on the edges and carmelized. Spread evenly over the crust. In the same pan, cook chorizo until done. Spread over the onions. Mix the eggs and soymilk together and pour over the top. Salt and pepper to taste. Bake for 20-30 minutes.

Strangely, everybody thought there was cheese on top. I think that the soymilk made a light crust on top that got browned? I dunno, but it was sure an easy and fast way to feed my guests.

Posted in recipes | 1 Comment

Baby's First Backpack

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qkdw4Mr6nGo]

It’s just one night, but I’m excited about backpacking with the baby! Chad will haul a regular backpacking backpack with the heavy stuff; I’ll carry the baby on my front with the Beco and wear a large day pack, which will have mostly clothes, diapers, and food.

It’s three strenuous miles in – supposedly.

So far, this is what we are bringing:

CAMP

  • sleeping bags (2)
  • ground cloth
  • tent (probably my North Face Tadpole)
  • trash bags
  • camera
  • headlamps (2)

KITCHEN

  • Knife
  • Matches
  • Utensils
  • Clean-up (baby wipes and bandanna)

BASIC PERSONAL

  • First Aid Kit
  • Toothbrush and Toothpaste
  • Sunblock (Alba Botanica organic lavender – SPF 30)
  • Journal/ Pen
  • Hairbrush (mini) plus ponytail holders and a barrette
  • Mirror (? I guess this is more a safety device for signaling)
  • Hat *** must not forget the hat
  • Baby Wipes (6-7 in a zip lock)
    Soap (Do we need soap??)

BABY

  • Diapers (We will be peeing him, but 10 just in case! Plus plastic bag for hiking it back out)
  • Sunblock (Weleda)
  • Sun hat and Pilot Cap

CLOTHES

I’ll wear hiking pants, a sports bra, a tank top, T-shirt, and baseball cap. On my feet I’ll wear my smart wool socks and my hiking boots. I think I’m just packing a fresh change of underwear and a clean T-shirt, plus two hankies to stuff in my nighttime nursing bra.

FOOD

Turkey sandwiches for lunch on the way in. Granola bars and flax muffins for snacking. Pastrami sandwiches (with sauerkraut) for dinner – ingredients packed separately in ziplock baggies. Bar of dark chocolate for dessert. Flax muffins for breakfast and water – hmmm, 1 1/2 gallons? Plus a couple pieces of fruit.

Posted in camping | Leave a comment

Christian's First Encounter with a Wild Tortoise

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZFGaLxow0M]

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHWuNGSd2oE]

Posted in Christian Holden, desert creatures | Leave a comment

The Great Outdoors

It appears that the boy loves to be outdoors. He absolutely cannot get enough.

Right now he is konked out, right beside me on the bed. And he well should be, after another day of nonstop new experiences and explores – most of them outdoors.

We’re in Joshua Tree at the moment and having a mini-vacation from Orange County life. I like that after fifteen years of wanting to leave this place (the high-desert, I mean), I can come back and enjoy it – the tremendous space, the quiet, and how far I can see by moonlight.

Whoo-ee, I don’t miss the endless dust or the incessant sun though. Night is better than day in the desert.

Highlights: a WILD tortoise walked through our lunch yesterday at my friend’s house (videos to follow – we fed it desert dandelions); and hearing the coyotes yammer their maniacal yelps at tonight’s twilight. If I had the right recording equipment, I would share the sound of coyotes with you. It is one of my favorite things to hear.

Now that Christian and I have worked out a routine for traveling (I drive, he naps) we may be heading out to the desert more. This trip: we’ve wandered in the desert looking for bleached cholla skeletons at sunset; and more mundane, but just as fun, we pulled weeds from the onion bed and planted tomatoes in a friend’s garden. Christian gaped (and pointed) at the flock of chickens he met today too. I got gifted a dozen eggs of varying sizes and colors. Yum.

Later this week, Chad and I will take Christian on his first backpack trip. We waited too long to make reservations and all the nicer car camping places were full – so we’re hiking three miles in to a primitive tent site near Crystal Cove. I can’t wait! Judging from how much Christian loves being outdoors here, I think he’s going to get a kick out of camping too. (Bella is choosing to skip the camping and planning to sleep over at a friends house.)

I think being outdoors is just plain good for kids. They need to spend time outdoors every day. Preferably wild outdoors. I want to aim for outdoors every day and wild outdoors at least once a week – but more if possible (ocean counts as wild, and so does Joshua Tree).

Posted in babies | 1 Comment

No Need

to post today, when my sister-in-law already threw up an adorable photo stream of Christian at her site, corrinacorrina (within hours of her visit – impressive turnaround!)

A preview pic – click on it to see the rest.

Posted in blogs I read, Christian Holden | 2 Comments

covet, covet, covet, want, want, want

Using Devana’s classroom as a model, I have compiled a visual list of toys that I want to begin making and collecting for Christian. Together these toys show a range of classic Waldorf playthings. I want the whole kit, cat, and caboodle – call me an over-achiever; that’s how I roll.

1. Play stands – This one I can do soon. I’ve got a pattern for the stands and I can trace and make some of those over-sized wooden clips. (I had two, but gave them to my sister already…) Already have a nice collection of silks. Play silks are essential for Waldorf-style play and I know Bella used hers for everything for many years.

2. Wooden Blocks – cut from tree trunk and tree branch sections. It is also nice to have whole branches and branch crooks to build small play treehouses.

3. Pinecones and Seashells – should be easy, right?

4. Wooden Figures – animals, people, houses, trees, and the like. While some, like the trees and houses will be easy to make, this might be the one area where I’ll need to invest a little money and buy a piece at a time.

5. Kitchen, Ironing Board, and Table and Chairs – Can you believe that Devana and her husband made that adorable play kitchen? That might be a bit of a reach for me, but I’m willing to give it a go – this summer – and perhaps with some help from Christian’s Grampi. The small table and chairs are from Ikea.

6. Play Capes and Costumes – again, those capes hanging on the wall were all made by Devana. Costume accessories are in a basket underneath. I can definitely make those. I like how they are hanging so visibly and in reach of little children’s hands.

7. Dolls and Accessories – a baby buggy, a sling, a bed, clothes etc. I have a good handle on this part. Just need to reassure the hubby that doll play is for boys too – and that he can get GI Joes for him when he is (much) older.

8. Knit Balls and Animals – No problem with this one either. I just finished crocheting a woolen soaker and I’ve started knitting a vest. Next I’ll begin on the balls and animals. Most of the patterns are in a book I have called A First Book of Knitting. FYI: Devana’s daughter made that rainbow ball when she was in second grade.

9. Nature Table – this is something that will build up over time. In a traditional Waldorf classroom there is always a seasonal nature table, which is actually a charming woodland scene created with silks, natural objects, and handmade fairies, gnomes, or other magical creatures.

Posted in waldorf | 5 Comments

Seven Days in the Art World

I seem to be stuck in a rut reading nonfiction these days, but I don’t mind so much when the nonfiction is practically as entertaining as fiction. (And that’s not hard when your fiction reading amounts to keeping up with your tenth grade daughter’s reading list – Brave New World? Depressing and not even that well-written… I do like Cry My Beloved Country though.)

Sarah Thornton, who has a B.A. in art history and a Ph.D. in cultural sociology, has deconstructed the contemporary art world by investigating seven of its most famous and arguably most important indicators: the Christie’s auction, a Cal Arts art crit, the Basal Art Fair, the Turner Prize, ArtForum magazine,  a famous art studio (Takashi Murakami’s), and the Venice Biennale. If you are involved in the art world in any way, you will enjoy this revealing fast read – and figuratively brushing shoulders with some of today’s major players (the book is based on 250+ high profile interviews).

Some quotes:

Leslie Dick on What is an artist?: “The work you do as an artist is really play, but it is play in the most serious sense…Like when  two-year old discovers how to make a tower out of blocks. It is no half-hearted thing. You are materializing – taking something from the inside and putting it out into the world so that you can be relieved of it.”

Turner Prize winning painter Tomma Abts: “My work hovers between illusion and object, and it reminds you of things”…”For example, I create a daylingt effect or a feeling of movement. Some shapes even have shadows.”…” I always work inside out. I know it’s finished when the work feels independent of me.”

[All Abts’ paintings are given names from a dictionary of German first names.]

Takashi Murakami: “An artist is a necromancer.”…”We define subculture as a cool culture from abroad, but otaku is an uncool indigenous culture. My mentality came from those animation geeks. I idled my time, imagining that Japan was a Philip K. Dick world.”…” An artist is someone who understands the border between this one and that one – or someone who makes an effort to know it.”

Clicking on this image will take to the site from whence it came.

Clicking on this image will take to the site from whence it came.

Posted in art, books | Leave a comment

Textbook Case

Looks like the little guy had roseola last week – he had all the symptoms:

Christian had a fever for three days and then when the fever broke, a rash quickly developed over his torso, creeping up his neck and down into his crotch area. The rash did not appear to itch or bother him in any way. He also had mild diarrhea. Two days later the rash disappeared. Everything passed through without any medical treatment, but he was extremely fussy and didn’t sleep well, and he needed lots of comforting and nursing. He had no appetite for regular food.

All told, we were in the house for five days. And I have no idea where he got it, because the incubation period can be as long as ten days.

However, roseola is supposed to be very common, with most children contracting it before entering kindergarten. It generally affects children between the ages of 6 months and 2 years, with the average age being 9 months. It is considered a mild illness. The only real hazard is posed by high temperatures. We never actually took Christian’s temperature, but watched his behavior very closely. Meaning he was hot, but never so much that he became lethargic or strange. He was just his normal self, but a grumpy, cranky version of himself.

I would’ve taken a picture, but I didn’t realize that it might be helpful to see what his rash looked like at the time.

Posted in babies, health | Leave a comment

Photomontage of Christian at 10 Months – From Your Old Man

Posted in Christian Holden | Leave a comment