Diet Update

We are finishing up our third week of being wheat and dairy-free. It hasn’t been so hard, because I’ve just reverted back to eating more asian-style meals with lots of rice. I bought one $5 loaf of rice flour bread to offset the craving for toast at night and one box of Lundberg’s organic brown rice pasta – neither were particularly satisfying, but luckily the cravings haven’t been so bad either. It’s only been hard when somebody offers me a fresh-baked goodie, which has only happened twice.

I feel better overall. Chad says he feels exactly the same. And Christian, well, his dry spots (probably eczema) have completely disappeared. That may be because we stopped using any soap on him though. The big surprise is that his cradle cap (dandruff-like stuff on the top of his skull) is also disappearing – and that, that has been there practically since day one.

We have not yet changed our laundry soap. I don’t think the laundry soap is a culprit in any of these mysterious ailments – but I noted at the grocery store that all leading brands of laundry detergent now offer a “free and clear” alternative – that’s right, Tide, Cheer, Sun – all of them have a product that is free of perfume and dyes and phosphates, and at the same price as their other detergents. That’s the power of the consumer changing the world right there.

We’ve learned that there is a whole world of gluten and casein-free people out there. I finally understand that wheat is ONE thing that contains gluten and dairy is ONE thing that contains casein. I don’t know if we are going to try to “go all the way.”

My theory: I can handle cheese and yogurt, but I think that I had been eating too much butter for my system. And I think I do better without wheat as well. I’m pretty sure that Christian was/is reacting mildly to either the gluten or casein in my diet (or possibly eggs – but I’m still eating those). Chad’s still getting headaches. My gut feeling is that Chad probably needs to continue on a wheat and dairy-free diet and that we also need to try eliminating processed sugar… maybe for this last week. All the sugar we consume is apparently related to an overproduction of candida yeast in our digestive tracts…

I did just finish Jenny McCarthy’s Louder Than Words, which is a book about treating her son’s autism (recommended by my friend Darlene – who said I should read it before getting any vaccines for Christian). I was deeply impressed by the positive impact that a gluten and casein-free diet made for Evan’s progress. McCarthy recommends two sites: http://gfcf.com for general information and this link will take to you a ten week plan to go gluten and casein-free.

In general though, it’s hard to imagine staying wheat- and dairy-free for the rest of our lives. I’m more attracted to a moderate diet that leans towards health. I liked the sound of the diet Rachel Beller (of Beller Nutritional Institute in Beverly Hills) recommends for recovering breast cancer patients:

  • Avoid processed sugar.
  • Limit alcohol to one drink a day.
  • Eat meat sparingly.
  • Eat at least five cups of fruits and vegetables a day.
  • Eat lots of legumes, omega-3’s, and “good” oils like olive oil.
  • Eat 30-35 grams of fiber a day.
  • Eat lots of superfoods: omega-3 rich sardines, wild salmon, trout, 2-3 prunes (2x the antioxidant capacity of blueberries)
  • Eat 1/2 c broccoli sprouts several times a week.
  • Drink matcha green tea – or any green tea.

That sounds like a diet I could live with, especially the sardines part.

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So Easy, Even a Chimp Can Do It…

Actually, Bella crashed three times when she tried a segway, but this crazy chimp gets the idea right away! The video is a little long (4:47), but you only have to watch 30 seconds to be laughing. It is gratifying to watch to the end though, and see how quickly and how much the chimp learns.

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Truly Bloody

I am pretty hooked to my small stable of TV shows this season: Heroes, Sarah Connor Chronicles; and soon, Battlestar Galactica and Lost will be starting too.

But the show I can’t get out of my mind is a new HBO show called True Blood. I hate to admit it, but yes, I am part of this national vampire frenzy – although there is much much more about this show than vampires that is interesting. To begin with, the guy behind the production is the same guy who did Six Feet Under, which means lots of sly humor, a strangely contemporary syncopated scene rhythm, smart dialogue, well-developed characters, and creative filming techniques. Secondly, the show is rests on the solid shoulders of some great acting; Anna Paquin plays the Sookie Stackhouse, the thinking girl with pert breasts and a flouncy ponytail. The other actors are strong as well – Sookie’s studly sex-crazed brother is a hoot (he dances in his underwear with a Laura Bush mask on in order to pay for his first foray with the drug, “V,” which is vampire blood). And lastly the whole thing takes place in the deep south – deep, deep south.

I find it fascinating that there is such a focus on vampires at the moment. This HBO series is based not on the Stephanie Meyer Twilight Saga, but on the best-selling (very) adult Southern Vampire Mysteries (the first one is called Dead Until Dark) by Charlaine Harris, which has been around for some years now. The Japanese have invented a synthetic blood called TruBlood, which allows vampires to come “out of the closet” and “mainstream” with regular human folk if they so choose. What ends up happening is that the vampires become a resented, feared, but decidedly powerful minority – this show deals on many levels with stereotypes and our tendency towards suspicion of the strange. The story line mostly revolves around Sookie (Paquin) and her romantic interest, who happens to be the new vampire in town. Did I mention that Sookie hears other people’s thoughts? It comes as no surprise that she is has few friends and no boyfriends as most of the time she is purely sickened by the thoughts she hears.

I don’t recommend this show for everybody, because of the blood, sex, and gore. If you wonder if this show is for you, just try watching the opening credits, which are some of the most inventive, creative opening titles I’ve ever seen. Between clips of a southern-style baptismal, a rotting fox, and a stripper’s undulating torso humping the dance floor, there are almost subliminal shots of film stock melting and burning, as if the film stock itself can’t handle the subject matter. I watch that exact same opening avidly every time and each time I catch something new. Excellent.

And don’t worry, we watch this one only when Christian is well and sound asleep!

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DIY Baby Legwarmers

I finally hooked up with a group of mothers practicing elimination communication last week. I found the Orange County group through www.diaperfreebaby.org, which is a free network of support groups across the world (like La Leche League, but less formal). Yes, the internet world is making it impossibly easy to meet like-minded parents in the area – Bradley classes, La Leche League, attachment parenting groups through meetup.com, diaperfree babies, and OC Baby Wearers – it’s almost getting to be too much.

In any case the diaperfree meeting was friendly and productive; we made baby leg warmers!

See, now that the weather has gotten chillier (well, it’s crept back up to 80, but it was 70 for a few days…That’s 27 Celsius for everybody else in the world. Brrrr), getting Christian undressed quickly to go to the potty has become more time-consuming. So I read with interest that diaper-free babies often wore leg warmers, instead of pants, around the house in cold weather. It seemed like I could make a pair simply enough – or buy a pair online for $15 – but neither of those things ever happened. What happened was that I was just pulling my own socks up onto Christian’s chubby little thighs and letting him look like a silly jester around the house, with the ends of my too-large socks dangling off his legs.

I was delighted to hear that the moms at the next diaperfree meeting in Huntington Beach were going to make leg warmers. All I had to do was bring a pair of knee-high socks. I brought four pairs of my own knee highs (because when do I ever wear them in sunny southern Cali?) and was slightly mortified, but not surprised, to find that everybody else had purchased brand new socks to make the leg warmers. Ah well, mine turned out cute anyway.

The process was super-easy. One of the moms, the host actually, had a serge machine, which really simplified the whole process. In a  nutshell, we cut off the foot of the sock and used the center portion of the foot to make another cuff for the sock. We basically followed the instructions from this useful instructional photo set on flickr, called Baby Hope. Click on the picture of cute Baby Hope below to watch the quick 15 picture slide show that shows you clearly how to baby leg warmers.

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Kudos to Bella

Bella got the spirit stick this week! This is what the coach said,

“Kudos to Bella for taking home the Spirit Stick on Wednesday! Bella is one of our first time cheerleaders and has worked very hard to catch up to the girls that have been doing this for years. She has done an amazing job – she has awesome motions (VERY sharp), her jumps look great, she’s mastered all the cheers and dances, and she’s even surprised us with some tumbling! Great job Bella – we’re so proud of you!”

And here is a small portion of Bella’s cheer team’s new competition routine.

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Park Sung Tae

Unleashed like Peter Pan’s unruly shadow, Park Sung-Tae’s aluminum screen, raised relief stallions buck across the wall, the unwoven screening wire creating startlingly realistic waving horse manes and tails. The horses are stylistically similar to the equine figures depicted in traditional Korean ink brush paintings and are quite arresting – and sellable – especially when presented in a long horizontal acrylic box as the one to the right of the door; however, the work with human figures demands more contemplation and looking, even if they don’t catch the eye as quickly as the writhing shapes of horses. The largest work (all are untitled) is comprised of nearly a dozen ghostly apparitions suspended between the floor to the ceiling by gossamer fishing line and hooks. The strange shadows cast on the wall merge with the actual substance of the piece, creating a lingering tension between what is and what is not. (PYO Gallery LA, Downtown).

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New Food Experiment

Chad and I have just completed our first week of being dairy and wheat-free. And it wasn’t as easy as I thought it would be. Sure, we had delicious Kung Pao Chicken tonight (with rice and steamed summer zucchini) and Pasta with Eggplant and Summer Squash last night (a Williams and Sonoma recipe with brown rice penne), but I had to say NO to orange almond torte on Wednesday at Bunco. And there is Halloween candy in the freezer. Sad. I think I need to go make some knox blox.

Our reasons for this month-long food experiment are many. Christian has developed some mild dry patches on his legs and I’m just wondering if they might be related to a food allergy and not just the weather. I’ve been spending a lot of time with other mamas and it sounds like any skin rash or eczema is frequently associated with a food allergy. Since at the moment Christian lives solely on mama’s milk, it’s a good time to check things out, meaning, it’s easier to control my own diet than to control anybody else’s. I’ve considered myself lactose-intolerant for most of my adult life, although I appear to handle cheese and yogurt relatively well – it’s butter, cow’s milk, and sour cream that gives me a stomach ache, and I wonder if Christian has the same sensitivity. Bella did when she was younger. I know that Asian (and African-American) populations have a much higher rate of lactose-intolerance than others.

And while I don’t think I have a problem with wheat, I suspect that Chad’s frequent head-aches might be related to wheat. I don’t have a reason why – just an intuition.

So we decided to get rid of both – for an entire month – to see how we feel.

Bella’s gloating that nobody can snack on “her” cereal (Pomagranate Blueberry from Trader Joe’s) or munch on her stash of fig cereal bars (also from TJ’s).

But before we said farewell to wheat and dairy we had a regular smorgasbord of the stuff – and I mean, besides the two Key Lime Pies and caramel sauce I made last month, I also made four trays of these completely out-of-control-decadent Caramel ‘n Chocolate Pecan Bars (once for Bella’s cheer team, once for the staff at Chad’s library, and twice for us).

Caramel ‘n Chocolate Pecan Bars (from a box of LandoLakes butter)

Crust

2 c flour (I used whole wheat once, and it worked fine)

1 c firmly packed brown sugar

1/2 c butter

1 c pecan halves

Topping

2/3 c butter

1/2 c firmly packed brown sugar

1 c chocolate chips

  1. Preheat oven to 350.
  2. Combine all crust ingredients, except pecans, in a bowl. Beat until it looks like fine crumbs. Press into a ungreased 13×9 casserole.
  3. Place pecans evenly over the crust.
  4. Combine the butter and sugar for the topping ina  saucepan over medium heat. Stir constantly until entire surface begins to boil. Boil, stirring constantly, for 1 minute. Pour mixture evenly over pecans and crust.
  5. Bake for 18-22 minutes, until entire caramel layer is bubbly. Do not overbake. (This is emphasized.)
  6. Remove from oven immediately and sprinkle on chocolate chips. Swirl melted chips if desired.
  7. Cool completely.
  8. Cut into bars.
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I want one!

Everyday I am discovering that the parenting world is different today than 15 years ago when I had Bella. For one, kids have the COOLEST toys now.

A pedal-less balance bike

A pedal-less balance bike

I went to my attachment parenting playgroup (through meetup.com) today and one of the kids had this wooden bike – it has NO PEDALS and is called a “balance bike.” The lucky kid got it in Germany and his mother sells it in her webstore, PlaynNature.com (check it out – great natural toy products there). The bike is appropriate for ages two through seven – and is the perfect alternative to training wheels. The only catch is that it is seriously expensive, to a tune of $315. But I swear, it’s the only thing Christian wants for his first or second birthday – the ONLY thing.

I even checked on craigslist for one today – I did find a pedal-less kid’s bike for $20 (also originally purchased in Germany). That may have to do for the time being.

Watch how much fun Finn is having on his bike. The first video (20 seconds) shows you how he uses the balance bike and the second shows you the long downhill cruise he took – Finn is only TWO YEARS OLD!

By the way, the dirt hill that Finn is trying to climb at the end of the first video? He gets up to the top and cruises down that hill too, much to his mother’s dismay. And in the second video, Finn is going much slower than he did for his first time down after a serious chiding from his mother (he wasn’t wearing his helmet). I was too astonished to video the first run downhill.

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I’m joking when I say it’s the ONLY thing Christian wants…but we do prefer one high quality wooden toy to lots of plastic toys. My friend Darlene also recommends www.treasureboxtoys.com for good gifts. Speaking of whom, Darlene posted some touching pictures today from her cousin’s technology-free daycare; like pictures of her 89-year old dad, Grandpa Bob to many of us, having his hair combed by one of the little girls.

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Revised Cause of Death

This information is gruesome, but important to other dog owners.

A couple days ago I received a comment on Giselle’s obituary suggesting that Giselle had died of Parvo, not by swallowing glass bits as we had suspected. Chad did a quick wikipedia search and all the symptoms match:

“Canine parvovirus type 2 (CPV2, colloquioally parvo) is a contagious virus mainly affecting dogs. The disease is highly infectious and is spread from dog to dog by direct or indirect contact with their feces. It can be especially severe in puppies that are not protected by maternal antibodies or vaccination. It has two distinct presentations, a cardiac and intestinal form. The common signs of the intestinal form are severe vomiting and severe haemmorhagic(bloody) diarrhea. The cardiac form causes respiratory or cardiovascular failure in young puppies. Treatment often involves hospitalization at a veterinary centre. Vaccines can prevent this infection, but mortality can reach 91% in untreated cases.”

Giselle had received a set of shots when we got her, but hadn’t yet received her one-year booster shots when she died. Catching Parvo makes sense in the context of moving to a new neighborhood where she was exposed to a lot of new dog feces. We also suspect that Giselle was so small that she simply didn’t have the wherewithal to fight a serious infection.

sad.

Photo of Nabi Grace and Giselle by Joss Dimock.

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Nostalgia for my alma maters

Hmm, that may not seem correct, but a perfunctory google check says, yes indeed, that “alma maters” is the plural for “alma mater.”

As I cleaned up my email inbox yesterday I finally watched a youtube video my brother, Songbae, sent me back in early September. The email said only, Start listening at 1:33, so I advise you to do the same.

The youtube video is called “Damn It Feels Good to Be a Banker: A Wall Street Musical” and while I think the video is now obviously out-of-date (Songbae is currently sending me quotes like this from the Oct 3 Harvard Business Online: “A male investment banker [who has lost 80% of his net worth in the last year] tells of bad dreams and grinding his teeth so badly he recently cracked two molars.” ) the mention of my old high school, made me guffaw. Whitman was [is] really a public school aspiring to a private school reputation.

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And recently I also read a light coming-of-age romance by Golda Fried called Nellcott is my Darling, which is entirely set in Montreal and at McGill University. Fried’s writing is spare and with splashes of lyrical metaphor. The story basically chronicals a good girl going off to university and falling for a guy, who frankly is more into himself than he is into her – the whole thing rings very true for an awkward freshman romance. It’s that crush kind of love you have on guys before you really know anything about yourself. It’s not normally what I would pick to read, but it was a nice change of pace and I LOVED reading about Montreal and McGill and Molson Hall (where I lived for a year)…The five reveiwers at amazon raved over it here, but I’m guessing they’re all college-aged kids themselves. I give it a B. (Thanks Tiff for sending me this – I sent it off to Chantelle to read next.)

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