Conveying Movement

It always goes a bit like this: the first few days are slow and mellow and I guiltily think about all the culture I should be soaking up in Bangkok, instead of floating around in the pool with the baby – then suddenly I am bone-tired because I am trekking around the city (with baby) and up late socializing with Sue and Joss’ interesting friends and I’ve hardly been in the pool at all.

Today I walked with Sue down to the BTS (skytrain) station intending on picking up a few groceries while seeing her off to work, but then ended up riding all the way to work with her and checking out the hospital market. It’s a small market, but mostly shaded inside the carpark, and the stalls change every single day of the month. Then I took the train back myself and picked up the few things we needed for tonight’s supper: salad from the vendor in the station, veggies from the local produce stall, French bread from the fancy western market called “Villa.”

It was my first time out alone in Bangkok this trip and I realized suddenly how unadventurous I am feeling this time around. I am perfectly content to walk Sue to work and have that be my explore (and exercise) for the day.

But then of course the maid came today, so Joss and I slipped out for lunch. We had another decent long walk at a leisurely pace down totally different streets. We walked slowly, because as Sue would say, What, are you trying to break a sweat? Nabi Grace fell asleep immediately, which allowed us to have a very slow lunch at a nice place down the road. I ordered a “sum tom” which is a cold shredded papaya salad, but it was waaaaaa-aaay too spicy so I had to painstakingly remove as many chili seeds as I could find. Then I had to order another dish, “rat na” again, to cut the spice. Whew.

Nabi Grace woke up very fresh-faced and fuzzy while we were still sitting on the patio there. I think these few shots capture her baby-ness and motion.

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Chillin' Like a Villain

Pictures can be so deceptive, implying stillness and steadiness where there is none. From all the photos I had seen on Nabi Grace, I had imagined her to be practically grown and adult-like, but she is definitely still a baby, and an adorable one at that.

We’ve spent the last few days easing into my visit, staying close to home. I’d forgotten all the energy it takes to keep a baby fed, clothed, and loved during the course of one day.

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First 24 Hours in Bangkok

Despite that I thought I was coming during peak season here in Thailand, which is winter time, and not supposed to be as hot – it is very, very hot. In fact, I have been in the pool five times in the last 24 hours. Whew. I feel very, very pregnant too.

But Nabi Grace makes me grin! Here she is on my lap in the taxi going home from the airport yesterday.

And here’s the family walking to a restaurant for dinner. We ate at Reflections, which is an excellent restaurant owned by an artist friend of ours named Nong. The “rat na,” fried noodles with fish and gravy is especially good there.

My favorite dish of the meal was an appetizer that consisted of wrapping toasted coconut, deep-fried shrimpies, roasted peanuts, finely minced garlic, onion, lime and peppers in a leaf of some sort. The whole thing was smothered in a thick sweet sauce. The result was a fresh, zingy snack that I could not get enough of. I was really surprised that enough little crunchy things wrapped in a leaf could be so satisfyingly delicious.

Here is a pic of Nabi Grace entertaining herself by examining every aspect of the dining porch while we were eating. I’d like to see her do Bikram – she has incredible flexibility!
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LA to Bangkok in Twenty-two Hours

After eating twice (chicken with mushrooms and a bowl of spicy noodles), watching one silly Chinese movie (Back Dancers), reading one chapter (The Secret Life of Your Unborn Child), and a long nap, I woke up with a start and thought, I haven’t posted yet!
No worries – I’ve just gone through all 100 emails in my inbox and you know what? I still have six hours left in the air to Taipei.

I arrived at LAX two hours in advance of my international flight, but I think I might be operating on old information; two hours was not enough to get through the horrendous lines. The entire two hours was spent waiting in one line after another: checking in, getting baggage x-rayed, and then the gate check. It was also time-consuming even just following the lines down the packed throughways, just to find the end of the line. I made it to the gate only a couple minutes before the scheduled take-off, but apparently so many other people were caught in those grisly lines that our departure was delayed by an hour.

I had a near cardiac arrest though while checking in. Turned out that my massive suitcase was fine, well within weight, but that my carry-on was over by 7 kilos (~15 pounds!) I had thrown my journal, a few unread New Yorkers, and a book into my carry-on, mistakenly believing that it would be the regular suitcase that would be the problem. Then as I was shuffling my December ArtForum into my purse and slinging my laptop over my shoulder I glanced down at my passport that I was clutching in my hand and momentarily considered putting it on the counter. But then that ominous voice in my head boomed, “An American passport is the most valuable document in the world,” and I didn’t.

I got my roller carry-on down to a passable 7.8 kilos and made my way over to line 2: the interminable x-ray line. I hunched over, balancing my bags and looked for my passport so it would be in hand. I searched, increasingly more panicked, every folded bit of paper in my purse. No passport. I searched again, and then a third time. I looked back at the counter where I had been tempted to lay my passport. Nothing.

I paused a minute and then started rifling through the magazines I had relocated to my main suitcase. Losing my passport was the one thing that would really prevent me from going to Bangkok tonight.

Then I knelt (no I didn’t pray) and opened my carry-on. Sweet relief. There it was, lying among computer cords and spare underwear.

Just a clarification though, the clothes I brought for this trip would have fit in my carry-on; the big suitcase is for the family import/export business.

I am importing:

Many Burt’s Bees products including

1. dusting powder
2. apricot baby oil
3. burts baby body lotion.
4. 2 lip shimmers (colour: watermelon)
5. baby soap
6. baby shampoo
7. 4 regular beeswax lip balms

Gifts
From Songbae: blank for Sue, blank for Joss, blank for Nabi Grace and ditto again from my family.

General household items:
2 boxes of quart-size zip lock baggies
dry ingredients for chocolate chip cookies
2 boxes of MACK’s pillow soft ear plugs
pasta
2 CD books of movies
December’s unread ArtForum and New Yorkers

and finally,
2 bottles of red wine

I also brought several pairs of pants that need hemming. That may seem ridiculous since I know how to sew and I own a sewing machine, but I love how well my pants were hemmed last time I was in Bangkok (for a buck).

The export products remain to be determined, but will likely include a big fake Coach purse for Bella.

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Medieval Helpdesk

This is for anybody who has ever helped anybody else learn an apparently simple task. It made Chad laugh so hard that he choked, but then again he teaches a weekly beginner’s computer class where he routinely has to answer questions like, “What’s a mouse?”

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One Sheet of Art Paper

Another email floating through cyberspace with no names or authors attached… I picked my favorite five out of the twenty-six images that were included. I wonder what I would make? (Thanks for sending this along, Al.)

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And Now I Have to Repack

The beloved king of Thailand recently had his 80th birthday so the entire country had a holiday and wore yellow. I had just packed my suitcase full of yellow when I received this email from my sister:

“i forgot to tell you… you probably haven’t heard, but the king’s sister passed away just after the new year.  thailand is observing 100 days of mourning therefore everyone has been requested to wear black or white (or gray is acceptable too) during this period.”

Well, that should be easier to pack for. Means there will be lots of black, white, and gray clothing for sale too.

One hundred days!

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Bangkok, Here I Come

I leave Friday for two weeks on EVA, which my sister assured me is a good airline. (Because their mascot is Hello Kitty?) All I know is that I am actually looking forward to the airplane food which will be all Chinese food.

I fly through Taipei and arrive in Bangers two days later on Sunday morning. Twenty hours of travel in store for me but it will be well worth it to spend time with my new-ish niece Nabi Grace, my brother-in-law, and my SISTER!!!

What fruit will be in season? How many times will I have that amazing noodle soup? Will I be able to sneak some durian into the house again?

 
Joss, Nabi Grace, and Sue attending Joss’ older brother’s wedding in Melbourne.
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There Will Be Blood Review

Yesterday Chad and I went to the theaters by UCI to watch the first showing of There Will Be Blood (9.0/10.0 IMDb) and had we seen it in 2007, it would have made the 2007 top ten list for both Chad and I. (Which reminds me – I need to add Last King of Scotland to my top ten list; although it was considered for last year’s Oscar’s we did see that movie in 2007. Violence aside, that movie was excellent and bone-chilling.)

There was something strange about There Will Be Blood, in the same way there was something strange about No Country for Old Men. I want to say that both movies felt anti-cinematic to me, yet I know that the Coen brothers  story board the hell out of their screenplays in the tradition of Alfred Hitchcock – and who’s more cinematic than Alfred Hitchcock? Perhaps I mean to say that both movies are so cinematic that they become nearly non-narratives; driven forward by inexorable tragic hubris rather than a plot.

Because what the hell was There Will Be Blood about anyway?! I know that I felt an undercurrent of danger and menace from the first musical screeches of the eerie score. I know that Henry Plainview’s life was hard against hard: the movie began with man alone in the dark wielding a pick against an implacable earth – and later, losing his tools and the health of his leg, alone in the desert, is not an insurmountable obstacle, but merely another day to to endure: one of many burdens Plainview will carry with him to mercenary success. I know that Daniel Day Lewis acted the hell out of Plainview’s character, so much so that I can hardly remember what any other character looked like or said (save the dark beseeching eyes of his son). I know I kept looking for Plainview’s enemy; was it God? Or just that man of God?

I watched Ebert and Roper out of the corner of my eye this evening; both men loved the movie, but what they said about it hasn’t yet made sense to me. They flashed Upton Sinclair’s name about and I caught somebody saying that Plainview represented capitalism at the turn of the century. Capitalism?

Well, perhaps. In that way I can understand that Plainview’s only enemy was himself.

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Four Month Pregnancy Update

I’ve just outgrown most of my pants, so I’m finally at the point where people might suspect that I am pregnant versus a buddha belly. However, when my girlfriends exclaim, Look at how big you’re getting! They aren’t talking about by belly as much as my increasingly bodacious ta-tas. Yes, my breasts are growing even faster than my belly and it’s now at the point where even my largest bras are looking like yarmulkas on a wobbly bald head. Very soon, tomorrow even, I’ll have to go shopping for the next size up, which is pretty exciting for somebody who has always wavered between an A and B cup.

We’ve started looking into our birthing options. Our first choice is a home birth with Karen Baker, the midwife who attended Bella’s birth fourteen years ago. However, she lives quite a distance away so she may not agree to take on the birth. Also, we don’t know if she is affiliated with an ob-gyn and so she may not be covered by our insurance at all.

Both the midwifery centers here in south Orange County will most likely be covered by insurance and so after my $300 deductible, the entire  cost of the birth would be under $1000. The difference is that Beach Cities Midwifery delivers only in the birthing rooms at the Laguna Beach Hospital, whereas South Coast Midwifery offers the choice between a home birth and a birthing center birth. I’ve made the initial enquiries and both centers offer a free consultations – so we’ll have to see which midwife we like the best (if it doesn’t work out with Karen Baker). I’ve heard good things about the midwife at Beach Cities, but I am leery about birthing at at hospital. We’ll make our consultation appointments for the beginning of February, after I get back from my trip.

My trip! That’s right, I’m headed off to Bangkok for a couple weeks to see Sue, Joss and Nabi Grace. The original plan was to visit this summer but the pregnancy has changed everything.  I got the tickets tonight!!

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