Chad's latest playlist

  1. “Plastic Passion”    Cure    Boys Don’t Cry    1980
  2. “Mannequin”    Wire    Pink Flag    1977
  3. “Sweetheart Contract”    Magazine    The Correct Use Of Soap    1980
  4. “No Dark Things”    Echo & The Bunnymen    Heaven Up Here    1981
  5. “Eye Of The Lens”    Comsat Angels    Sleep No More    2003
  6. “Memories”    Public Image Ltd.    Metal Box    1979
  7. “Dreams Never End”    New Order    Movement    1981
  8. “Sleeping Gas”     Teardrop Explodes    Kilimanjaro    1980
  9. “Heyday”    Sound    Jeopardy    1980
  10. “The New Stone Age”    OMD    Architecture & Morality     1981
  11. “Dark Entries”    Bauhaus    In The Flat Field    1980
  12. “Split Second Feeling”    Cabaret Voltaire    Red Mecca    1981
  13. “Spirit Walker”    Cult    Pure Cult: The Best Of The Cult     1984
  14. “Five Ten Fiftyfold”   Cocteau Twins    Head Over Heels    1983
  15. “Cry”    Birthday Party    Prayers On Fire    1981
  16. “A”    Associates    The Affectionate Punch    1980
  17. “At Home He’s A Tourist”    Gang Of Four    Entertainment!    1980
  18. “Metal Postcard (Mittageisen)”    Siouxsie & the Banshees    The Scream    1978
  19. “Digital”    Joy Division    Substance 1977-1980    1988
  20. “Celebrate”    Simple Minds    Empires and Dance    1980
  21. “Sunday Morning”    Bolshoi    Away…Best of the Bolshoi    1986
  22. “A Day Without Me”    U2    Boy      1980
  23. “Penelope Tree”    Felt    Gold Mine Trash    1987
  24. “As High As You Can Go”    Chameleons UK    Script of the Bridge    1983
  25. “Monument”    Depeche Mode    A Broken Frame    1982
  26. “Vienna”    Ultravox    The Collection    1984
  27. “All Of This And Nothing”    Psychedelic Furs    All Of This And Nothing    1988
  28. “Adventures Close To Home”    Raincoats    The Raincoats    1980
  29. “Do The Du (Casse)”    A Certain Ratio    The Graveyard And The Ballroom    1980
  30. “Totally Wired”   Fall    Grotesque    1980
  31. “Humor Me”    Pere Ubu    The Modern Dance    1977
  32. “Ghost Rider”    Suicide    Suicide    1978
  33. “Marching On”    Alarm    Declaration    1982
  34. “That’s When I Reach For My Revolver”    Mission Of Burma    Signals, Calls And Marches    1981
  35. “War”    Tones on Tail    Everything!  1984
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blogging about money

I have been toying with the idea of blogging about my finances ever since I read about Jane Dough in Boston, who literally posts her net worth every month. I’ve also been inspired by my friend and fellow blogger Tiffany who has been pulling her family’s finances together (more privately) so that she can remain an at-home mom with her baby girls. Now I’ve come across an interesting article in the Feb. 18, 2007 Sunday NYTimes called “Debtors Search for Discipline via Blogs.” (See the article here.)

I think I’m going to do it – talk about money – my money. Raised in a middle-class family (okay, upper middle-class… okay, some would call it wealthy… but I swear when I was there and living it, we all called it middle-class – however delusional that seems now), I was brought up to believe that it was absolutely gauche to talk about money. Then as an adult, I had a short period of extreme poverty when I was with Bella’s dad and I discovered something: it’s okay to talk about money if you don’t have any. So it’s fascinating to me to see a wave of “poor” people (people in debt or people with a negative net worth) blogging about it. I think I make little enough to be okay with posting about my budget…

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even cuter…

I took Bella to meet her today. Chad and I decided that the surprise element was too dangerous. Too much risk of rejection.

Bella says she is not going to accept the puppy, but has named her Giselle. We are slowly advancing.

We are still aiming at having Chad bring Giselle home on Friday. She is a playful pup!

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you won't believe how cute she is

I met her today! Besides I needed a dose of cuteness to offset the gross foot. (My boob appears large compared to her head, but I swear it’s not that big – the breast I mean.)

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with images like this

Who even smokes anymore?

Sue sent me this beaut. This image come from a British Marlboro pack and says: SMOKING CAUSES PERIPHERAL VASCULAR DISEASE. In case you can’t tell; it’s picture of a foot with advanced gangrene. gross. Now what do I do with the box? Do I stash it in a shoebox labeled “womantalk blog pic archive”?

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sssshhh…

I think Chad and I are going to get a little baby chocolate chihuahua puppy for Bella – as “wedding” gift. Her nickname is Little Miss Naked because she is short-haired and her mama is long-haired. By my friend’s account, Little Miss Naked is the sweetest, best-looking chihuahua she has ever encountered. Chad and I are trying to strategize – have Chad walk in through the door this Friday pup in arms? or let her know in advance so the good news sinks in and mingles with the “wedding” word?

Ultimate bribery we know. Think it’ll work?

I’m excited – a 10-week old puppy is coming!!!

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Elephant Birth

This video has no bearing on our trip to San Francisco except that Chad showed it to me here. It is the birth of an elephant in the wild – captured by a honeymooning couple. The baby stands minutes after its birth!

[googlevideo=http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5736044891704882660]

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San Francisco Day 1

After years of doggedly chasing the cheapest way to LAX (bus shuttles from Joshua Tree and rides with friends) I finally broke down this year and bought a year’s membership to Wally Park, a huge spotted parking structure a mile from the airport. They provide free shuttles, complimentary water, and round-the-clock service for $12.95/day (rooftop special).

Of course now I discover that there is public transportation to LAX via the Metro Rail green line for a mere $1.25. And the all-day pass is only $3! As much as I believe in public transportation, I had some kind of strange belief that there was no such thing in Los Angeles. I dunno – it just seems like such a car city and everything is so far apart from each other… In any case, we stayed with Chad’s sister who currently lives in the city of Hawthorne, just south of the airport. We woke up at 4 am to walk to the Metro station (40 min) – the airport was only one stop away.

All went well until we were actually circling the Oakland airport an hour later. The cloud cover was too low: 1000 feet and it needed to be 1200. We circled for half an hour and then because we were running low on gas we were flown to Fresno. Yes, Fresno. We sat and waited and sat and waited some more. We were not allowed to disembark for security reasons, so we just sat and waited for the fog to lift. Two hours later, the captain gave us the welcome news that we were ready to leave. And then almost immediately some engine sound became ominously silent… The captain let us know that the back-up generator that had been running our air conditioner had died and needed to be checked before departure… This is the kind of situation that validates my habit of being a compulsive food hoarding freak because we ate every apple, corn nut, nugget of cheese, and even the day-old del taco bean and cheese burritos I had brought. We finally made it to San Fran after 4 1/2 hours. Whew. I suppose that it’s just a matter of odds when you travel, that you will run into weather and plane glitches.

We rode the BART into the city (Songbae had unfortunately driven out to pick us up earlier that morning…) We went directly to the visitor’s center at the Powell stop to get our 3-day muni passes ($18 – unlimited) and began hoofing it to Songbae’s work at the TransAmerica Building. Songbae works on the 21st floor and we were rewarded with an exclusive and amazing view of the city. We witnessed at least a dozen poor bastards asking the security guards if they could go up for the view. Apparently lots of tour books still list the TransAmercia Building as a good place to get a free view, but it has been closed to the public since 9-11.

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how my 13-year old "dates"

Mom: so he asked you out? Are you going to kiss him?

Bella: Eeeeeuuuw. No way.

Mom: Hold his hand?

Bella: Hug him. Maybe.

Later… They “went out” for two days, and then Bella “dumped” him. Ah… I remember those middle school days – when all communication with the boys you liked was done via a friendly intermediary!

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TSA regulations for anything liquid-ish

I’m going to San Francisco this weekend. Yippee!

I’ve just spent the last hour or so polishing my shoes, packing snacks, and doing the TSA regulation research thing online. I’ll be damned if I let those fellows take my (new) make-up a second time – that was a costly mistake.

So in a nutshell, you can bring ONE clear quart-size ziplock per passenger. And everything in it needs to be in a 3-ounce container or smaller. The official word on permitted and prohibited is here.

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