I'm leaving … on a jet plane…

We’re starting to think that Sue’s baby is going to be here before May 5 – so I am flying out to Bangkok Saturday night! in TWO DAYS!!

Flight Information
DELTA CONFIRMATION #: RWA2PQ

Bkng Meals/
Day Date Flight Status Class City Time Other Cabin
— —– —————- —— —– —————- —— —– ——-
Sun 22APR Delta 8953* OK L LV LOS ANGELES 115A S Coach
AR TAIPEI-TPE 610A#
*Operated by CHINA AIR

Mon 23APR Delta 8961* OK L LV TAIPEI-TPE 940A B Coach
AR BANGKOK 1220P
*Operated by CHINA AIR

Sun 06MAY Delta 7918* OK L LV BANGKOK 130A B Coach
AR INCHEON KORE 845A
A SO
*Operated by KOREAN AIR

Sun 06MAY Delta 7861* OK L LV INCHEON KORE 730P D Coach
A SO
AR LOS ANGELES 230P
*Operated by KOREAN AIR
Passenger Information
JEANNIE LEE
Skymiles Number: *******327
Seat(s): Delta 8953
Delta 8961
Delta 7918
Delta 7861

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Bella's favorite subject is… Bella

but she still gets A+’s in all her other subjects: another straight-A report card to brag about.

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What a Buzz Kill

My thesis passed, but apparently with a little reluctance:

“It is my pleasure to inform you that we have passed your thesis.
Congratulations. I am happy to see your writing improve; however, I do want to note that the committee still has some serious reservations about the depth and breadth of your research and analysis — both of which will need more work if you plan to continue in the field.”

I do plan on continuing in this field! Does this mean I won’t be able to ask for letters of recommendation? sigh. Being good at stuff just doesn’t come as easily as it did when I was young. I have to work so darn hard at everything these days. Although, I think that being any kind of writer might always be hard.

Bella and I celebrated by going out for sushi (which in Yucca Valley, might be considered a risky affair – but still beat out Pizza Hut).

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nasty skank byotch

Well, normally I don’t use language like that on my blog but it’s the name of a blog I occasionally visit. The guy who writes it is a friend of Sue’s from her London days (sheesh, would be nice if we all had “London” days) and he is a major foodie.

He travels a lot and writes about everything that passes through his lips. He cooks a lot too. So, if you can get over the name, you might want to check it out.

His latest post (March24, 2007) is about Korean restaurant in London that serves a very traditional and special dish: neither he or I can remember what it is called, but it is a baby chicken stuffed with brown rice, persimmons, dates and pine nuts, served as a soup in a piping hot, stone bowl.

Speaking of food and blogs – Tiff over at her littlemissc.blogspot.com (canadian mum) made Maui Burgers for the first time and did a great job chronicling the whole process with photos.

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Why Your Home Isn’t the Investment You Think It Is

Here’s an excellent article Songbae sent me; it’s probably illegal to post it in full, but maybe you’ll read it fast before anybody shuts my site down.

Why Your Home Isn’t the Investment You Think It Is — Too many people rely on their home as their primary savings strategy; That’s a mistake
By David Crook
12 March 2007
The Wall Street Journal
R1
English
(Copyright (c) 2007, Dow Jones & Company, Inc.)

PLANNING YOUR retirement? Don’t bet the house on it.

Your home means a lot of things to you, most of them good. Your home
gives comfort and protection to you and your family, and it could well
embody all your material hopes and dreams.

But houses have become much more than just places to live. Your home is
probably your biggest asset, and the price you could ask for it today is
almost certainly much higher than what you paid for it back whenever.

As a result, houses have become substitute credit cards, as profligate
owners borrow their equity to finance everything from cars to vacations.
Among thriftier owners, the equity they have built up in the family home
has become a vital part of retirement planning — a “fourth leg” of the
now-unstable “company pension/personal savings/Social Security” stool
that was long the model for a financially secure old age.

Unfortunately for both groups, however, houses are not very good
investments. For the grasshoppers, there’s nothing quite as stupid as
paying off your 2002 trip to Orlando in 2032, when you finally settle up
your refinanced “cash out” 30-year mortgage. And for the ants, economic
studies have demonstrated over and over that houses (1) cost more than
most people make when they sell and (2) rarely match the long-term
returns of stocks or other investments.

And that’s doubly true today, with much of the U.S. well into a
real-estate recession. It’s unlikely that homeowners in once-booming
areas will see a return of skyrocketing prices anytime soon.

“Real-estate investments suffer serious and sometimes prolonged
downturns,” writes economist W. Van Harlow in a new study of home equity
and retirement from the Fidelity Research Institute in Boston. “A
real-estate ‘bust’ could be quite damaging to an investor nearing
retirement who relied too heavily on home equity.”

It may be late for a lot of homeowners to read this, but here it goes
anyway: It’s risky and bad planning to have too much of your net worth
in your principal residence. No prudent stock-market player would put
60% or 70% of a portfolio in just one stock, but millions will hold that
much or more of their total net worth in just one house.

Food for thought:

— If you bought a house in Los Angeles in 1990, just as the real-estate
market turned downward, you would have had to wait a decade for your
home’s value to return to what you paid.

— If you bought in Rochester, N.Y., in 1980, you would have seen only a
mediocre 4% annual growth for the next 25 years.

— If you bought in Dallas in 1986, as the oil boom went bust, your home
wouldn’t have appreciated at all before 1998.

So with all that in mind, here’s a question-and-answer rundown of some
financial issues of home owning.

Q: My home is my largest asset. Why shouldn’t I rely on it to provide my
nest egg?

A: Because a house can be an inefficient means of investing, and it
costs far more to buy and operate than you think. Homeowners can easily
end up paying more to live in their houses than the supposed “profit”
they make when they sell them.

When most homeowners figure their returns, they don’t do much more than
subtract the price they paid from the price they received. Then they
come up with a really big return because they paid only a 10% or 20%
down payment. So they figure they made a huge “profit.”

But they didn’t. That’s because the costs of owning a home — buying it
with a long-term mortgage and then paying taxes on it, insuring it,
repairing it, renovating it — sap most of what most homeowners think
they make in price appreciation.

Houses are nice financially because there are not many other things you
buy that actually go up in value, and not many things can put a
six-figure check in your pocket when you sell them. But don’t delude
yourself: You’ve already spent most of that check, and you are likely to
spend the rest in just a few days when you buy a new home.

Think of your sale proceeds another way: not as a true profit, but as a
huge rebate. Some of the thousands of dollars that you paid into the
house over the years are being returned to you — sometimes with a
bonus, often without.

Q: But it’s certainly better to buy a house than to pay rent.

A: That depends on when you buy, and how long you own. Buy at the wrong
time — like during the kind of buying frenzy that much of the country
has just experienced — and you could well end up wishing you had rented
instead.

Boom market or bust, home buying has so many extra costs — from upfront
“points” paid to a lender to title insurance and appraisal fees — that
over the first five to seven years, a renter who invests the equivalent
of a down payment in stocks could easily do better overall than a house
buyer. Compounding that problem: Most homeowners move within seven
years.

As the ownership timeline stretches out to 15, 20 or 30 years, however,
the buyer will almost certainly do better than the renter, especially
given the tax benefits of paying mortgage interest over traditional rent
and the big rebate when the owner finally sells.

But the typical buy vs. rent argument clouds the more important point: A
house is an inefficient way of building wealth.

Q: But I have to live somewhere! And I have to pay something for a place
to live. Certainly it’s better to pay “deductible” mortgage interest
than rent.

A: Buying a house with a long-term mortgage is just another form of
renting.

Mortgage interest is rent that you pay to your lender for the use of its
money rather than to a landlord for the use of his house. Yes, the
government picks up a portion of that with the tax deduction, but most
of your monthly payment neither builds equity nor is deductible. It just
goes down the same black hole that sucks up any other renter’s money.
And it takes 20 years before a typical borrower pays more principal each
month than interest.

“I have to pay something” is a rationale that home buyers use for going
deeply in debt and paying tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars in
interest to buy a house that, they mistakenly believe, will make a big
profit for them down the line.

Q: So how much does a house really cost?

A: You can easily end up spending three times the purchase price of a
house. Today’s buyer of a typical $300,000 single-family home who takes
out a 30-year loan will end up paying the price of the house again just
in interest. Add 30 years of property taxes, homeowner’s insurance,
regular maintenance and a couple of big-ticket repairs or improvements,
and the total cost of buying the home could easily top out at well over
$1 million.

Q: Yes, but the house will be worth much, much more.

A: Maybe, maybe not. Whether you come out ahead depends on where and
when you buy. Even cash buyers might be surprised to see that they can’t
be assured of making a profit.

“The Costs of Home Ownership” table is a simplified rundown on a typical
single-family home — a house that was bought for $50,000 in 1977 —
based on national appreciation rates as reported by the Office of
Federal Housing Enterprise Oversight (OFHEO). Included are modest
estimates of other home-owning costs (not adjusted for inflation). To
keep things simple, there are no transaction costs, no additional
borrowing to finance improvements and no refinancing costs, all of which
would drive the expenses even higher. It’s not a pretty picture.

Q: Those numbers don’t seem realistic for where I live. You can’t buy a
house here for that kind of money.

A: To be sure, not everyone did so badly as the national average.
OFHEO’s Home Price Index calculator puts the average 30-year
appreciation for a house in the ever-pricey San Francisco metropolitan
area at 1,125%, compared with the national average of just 481% (
http://www.ofheo.gov/HPI.asp ). So if you bought that $50,000 house in
San Francisco in 1977, it would be worth about $613,000 today and,
assuming much the same costs of ownership, you’d make a true profit of
$219,000.

You would have done well in other coastal metro regions, too. The
comparable house would be worth about $593,000 in Los Angeles (up
1,085%), $549,000 in New York (998%) and $432,000 in Washington (763%).

But some other big cities didn’t fare as well. You’d be in the red in
Chicago, where home values rose 463% and the house would be worth
$282,000. Your house would be valued at only about $176,000 (252%) in
Dallas and just $147,000 in Houston (193%).

Q: But even if I had bought in Texas, I’d still essentially break even.
Buying let me live “rent free” for 30 years.

A: Living “rent free” is moving in with your parents or your wealthy
lover in Tuscany. You didn’t live rent free. You had some of your rent
money subsidized and then some more rebated.

Yes, you are sitting on a lot of home value, but you’ve spent a lot —
probably more than the house is worth — getting what you have. And you almost certainly lost some investing opportunities along the way while you were spending your money buying the house.

And that’s assuming everything breaks your way. If you don’t sell at the
top of the market, you could see stagnant or falling values for a while.
There have been real-estate bubbles before. In San Francisco, where it
looks like prices may have hit their high mark in the third quarter of
2006, home values peaked in early 1990 before falling for the next eight
years. Houston saw a modest surge in the ’80s, followed by an equally
modest decline and then two decades of grindingly slow appreciation.

Q: That’s still money that I wouldn’t see otherwise. Even getting just
some of my money back is better than getting none.

A: But there’s another kicker. You haven’t gotten any money back yet.
All you have is a house that’s 30 years older than when you moved in. In
order to realize your windfall, you’ll have to borrow against it or sell
it.

If you borrow against a house you’ve paid off, then you will start
mortgage payments all over again.

If you sell it, what are you going to do with that big check in your
pocket after you’ve walked around for a couple of hours feeling richer
than you’ve ever been? You’ll probably spend most of it in just a day or
so buying another house.

Q: So I’ll downsize, find a smaller, cheaper house, buy it and then
invest the rest of the money.

A: Prices tend to rise or fall across an entire market. So if you want
to stay in the same metropolitan region and save a big chunk of your
rebated nest egg, you should be prepared to go significantly downscale
— move to a much less desirable neighborhood.

Consider a hypothetical Washington-area couple who bought their home for
$55,000 in 1977. (You can see a complete rundown on the house at
WSJ.com/Reports.) With improvements and market appreciation they appear
to have done quite well. If they sell their house today, they could
expect to get something in the neighborhood of $860,000. And they would
walk out of the closing meeting with a rebate check of about $550,000,
of which about $175,000 would be profit.

But they’re facing a tough market where the median price of a condo is
two-thirds the cost of a single-family home. They don’t have enough
money to make the most obvious move down — from their house to a
comparable apartment that would cost around $575,000.

Q: Then I’ll move to someplace cheaper, like Houston.

A: You still face borrowing or spending all or most of your cash on your
new house — and you will still have maintenance, property taxes,
insurance and other “I have to pay something” costs.

If our Washington couple chooses to leave and move to a cheaper housing
market, they will still have costs greater than they think. Popular
retirement communities are usually cheaper than big metropolitan areas,
but they are not so cheap that sale proceeds will plant them on a
country-club fairway and pay for the lifestyle that goes with it.

According to Coldwell Banker’s often-cited home-comparison calculator, a
house comparable to the place in Washington would cost $439,000 in Fort
Myers, Fla., or $407,000 in Orlando. The couple would do a little better
moving to Tucson, Ariz., where the comparable house costs $281,000 —
leaving the sellers with less than half of their rebate windfall.

So yes, cashing out in Washington — or San Francisco or New York —
will give you enough money to buy a nice place on a golf course
somewhere in the Sun Belt. And you might have $200,000 or $300,000 left
over.

Q: So what can I do if I’ve planned too much of my retirement around my
investment in my home?

A: If you already own your home, you can still rein in your expenses,
and diversify your investments. Unfortunately, there’s not a lot you can
do about reducing many of the costs of home owning, such as property
taxes or replacing a roof.

But you do have control over two of the biggest home-owning costs:
interest and renovations. Both are big money losers. Even with the tax
deduction, most of your mortgage interest is still just wasted rent
money. So accelerating your principal payment will result in huge
savings down the line. Add $300 a month to the payment on a 6.25%,
$300,000 loan, and you’ll save 10 years of payments and $83,000 of
after-tax money — enough to put a kid through a public university.

Few, if any, renovations make a profit. A new kitchen or family room
might raise the resale value of a house, but rarely as much as they cost
to build. And if the homeowner borrows the money, the renovation work
could end up costing two or three times what the contractor charged.

If you don’t already own your own home, do the math. Don’t buy if you
think you’ll be moving in just a few years. Don’t buy a house that’s too
big for your needs or so expensive that you will strain to pay for it
simply because “it’s a good investment.” It’s not.

Mr. Crook is editor of The Wall Street Journal Sunday and author of “The Wall Street Journal Complete Real-Estate Investing Guidebook.” He can be reached at david.crook@wsj.com.

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The Rules

  1. Applicants must be an unmarried male and an unmarried female.
  2. Blood tests are no longer required in the State of California.
  3. License is valid for 90 days. Ceremony must take place within 90 days of purchase.
  4. Minimum age requirement is 18 years.
  5. Valid photo I.D. required. (Drivers license, State issued I.D., passport, etc.)
  6. If either applicant has been divorced or had an annulment within the last year, we will need a certified copy of the FINAL DECREE OF DISSOLUTION before issuing a license.
  7. Both applicants must apply together.
  8. All persons who are members of a religious society or denomination not having clergy for the purpose of solemnizing marriages, must let the clerk know they need a VS 115 form. (Family Code, Section 425).

The hardest part will be the application being made in person. How on earth are two working adults supposed to get to a county office 1 1/2 hours away between 8 – 4:30 Monday to Friday?!

Oh yeah – and it costs $73.

A confidential one costs $75 – two bucks extra for them to keep a secret?

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Mazel Tov!

We have made some more wedding progress: Chad and I agreed upon an officiant, Dr. Inge Davidson of the Church of Cosmic Energy Exchange and she has agreed to perform our ceremony.

So now we begin thinking about the ceremony and the vows. I have attended very few weddings in my life, and Chad’s attended even fewer. Will we write our own vows? Will we use modified traditional vows? I have no idea.

Some thoughts/suggestions from other friends:

  • Make sure that Chad and I have time together alone before the ceremony – perhaps arrive at the site together.
  • Address each other at the ceremony.
  • Think about music (somebody playing guitar?), poetry, any readings or speeches we might want.
  • Keep it happy and fun.
  • Think about how we may (or may not) include Bella (this will depend on whether she wants to be included…)

And I will have to do some minor investigating to get a San Bernardino County marriage license in advance. I was cautioned that I will have to know the date of my divorce. (Nope, only need that info if the divorce was within the last year.)

Also, the majority of the invitations are ready to put in the post tomorrow. Getting the invitations together was a big step; as I told Chad, now I feel like the wedding is really going to happen.

And in anticipation of wedding questions, I have created a wedding information page (look for it at the top right-hand corner of this blog), and a new email address: jeannieandchad@gmail.com.

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Better Than Photocopying Your Butt

Chad’s dad, Al, shared this link with me. It takes you to the website of Katinka Matson, an artist who makes her images by scanning live objects.


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A Rockyou slideshow

I thought I’d try making a slideshow of these Bella photos. She was delighted to find out had she had to wear glasses…but she only does if it works with her look for that day.

[rockyou id=64474052&w=426&h=320]

Some cool features of Rockyou:

  • If you are using pics from a photobucket account: all your photobucket pics are right there – no need to paste any html.
  • Rockyou recognizes my gmail account (must be related to?), and so I don’t have to create yet another new account.

But the true test will be to see if I ever bother getting around to making another slideshow.

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Belated San Fran Post

Some nice things we did: walk along the waterfront at sunset, eating fried calamari…

visit the Conservatory of Flowers in Golden Gate Park…

And some things Songbae should take advantage of that are in his neighborhood:

  1. Mara’s Italian Pastry at 503 Columbus Ave (open until midnight on Fridays and Saturdays)
  2. Specs at 12 William Saroyan Alley and Columbus (for a nightcap)
  3. Bikram Yoga at 910 Columbus Avenue (it’s right across the street from you – you should definitely try it out – there are three classes a day: M-F, 9 am, 4:30 pm, 6:30 pm; S-Su have just the first two classes – it was the first Bikram studio in the U.S…. $29 for the first 30 days)
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