Homeschooling 101

As Christian and his friends approach their fourth birthdays this year, there has been a lot of buzzing about schooling and homeschooling, because frankly most conventionally schooled kids are already in some “school” situation by this age.

As a mom of an 18-year old who was homeschooled until 7th grade, I’ve been asked more than once to share some thoughts and resources on the subject. Well, here it is. Keep in mind that I’ve been out of the homeschool loop for some years now and my favorite resources were written over 20 years ago. I have new favorites, but I know that I’m just touching the tip of the iceberg. (This post is for you, Shelby and April!)

Specifically, this post will be about Waldorf-inspired homeschooling in California.

IMO: Most unschooled kids in a literate, loving household with restricted TV and plenty of time outdoors, would get to the age of 12 pretty much knowing the same amount of information as a 12-year old public-schooled kid – simply by being allowed to follow their own interests. I really do believe this. Research shows (remember, I was a public school teacher for 10 years) that only about 20% of the population needs explicit teaching to learn to read. That’s right, most of learn to read as effortlessly as we learned to talk.

What does this mean? That we’re making mountains out of molehills. Moms ask, with wringing hands, if homeschooling will ruin their children. I assure you, a little love and a little interest go a long, long way, and there is very little chance that you will do less for your child than the public school system.

YOUR CHOICES:

In California, there are three main ways to homeschool with varying degrees of personal responsibility and freedom.

I. Charter Schools – Public schools get federal funds for every student enrolled, so it’s no surprise that public schools are out to get their piece of the homeschool market. A homeschooler who enrolls in a public charter school is entitled to a certain portion of this money to spend on curriculum or educational classes. This is a very attractive bonus to some, especially as programs like Earthroots are approved charter school vendors. Generally, you can choose your own curriculum, but the flip side is that you have to meet with an Education Specialist (ES) once a month and show examples of work in all subjects. Students are also generally expected to participate in state testing. Charter Schools are good for people insecure about homeschooling, and who want a bit of hand-holding. It’s more difficult for those interested in Waldorf-style education because you have to constantly justify watercolor painting, music, and handwork as necessary for the growing soul (let’s face it, the state does not care about the child’s soul) and also because academics, as such, are slightly delayed in a Waldorf program, in order to protect the wonder of the younger years.

II. Private Homeschool Schools – There are some great Waldorf and Waldorf-inspired curriculum out there today, and most offer support, if you want it. Meaning, that an “school” like Oak Meadow will sell you just the curriculum, or offer telephone/online support, or you can enroll your child in a distance-learning program where you are actually sending work to a teacher who offers feedback and assessment.  Again, enrolling in a program is helpful for those who want more guidance and direction.

III. Be Your Own Private School – In California, it only takes the choosing of a name and the filing of an affidavit to proclaim yourself as a private school. Yes, really. Since private school teachers are not required to be credentialed, you can list yourself as the sole teacher, and your child, the sole pupil of your school. The last I heard, you are required to keep attendance records. Homeschooling organizations like CHN (California Homeschool Network) can offer support for this choice.

BUT WHICH CURRICULUM?

If you are interested in Waldorf homeschooling, the two big names are Live Education and Christopherous. Both are expensive, but can be found used (even though they are not supposed to be resold – there are yahoo boards where reselling happens). You can use charter school funds to purchase these curriculums, but you will have to hand the curriculum back to your ES at the end of the year. (Technically, everything you buy with your charter school funds becomes public school property.)

There is also Enki and Oak Meadow, which are both considered Waldorf-inspired, not “pure” Waldorf. I use parts of both as a resource for my forest kindergarten, especially for opening circle. Enki is nature-based. Oak Meadow has been around a long time and I used it (loosely) for Bella’s kindergarten and first grade years.

There are tons of discussion online about which one is best, but it is surely more a matter of personal choice. Your best bet is to find a Waldorf homeschooling community and sneak a peek at the curriculums your new friends are using. Or close your eyes and pick one. Seriously, you can choose a different one for the next grade.

How about the California Standards?

What about them? They exist and are easily accessed online. Click here if you want to see what California expects every student to know at every grade. These standards are nothing to sneeze at. Public school teachers are expected to conform their curriculum to them, textbooks are written (and rewritten) to teach them, and state tests are designed to assess your knowledge of them.

Speaking of state tests: Every year 15-20% of the tests are changed and the dropped questions are publicly released. These released questions give an excellent way to preview state testing, and are also frequently used in schools as a review. You can go get them directly from the California Department of Education site here. Go ahead and print them out for your child’s grade. You’re not supposed to “teach to the test,” but you could – just like public school teachers do.

If you wanted to be sure that your child could go back to school easily and comfortably, follow these standards and your child will be a star pupil. However, be aware that you would be in conflict with a Waldorf-style education.

Wait, What did you do with Bella?

Good question. I considered ourselves to be “unschoolers” although that word seems to have accrued different meaning now from 20 years ago. By “unschooling,” I mean that I mainly followed Bella’s interests and gave her plenty of time and support to pursue those interests. Yes, that means she spent days writing scripts and music lyrics down. I called that Language Arts. She made stained glass with her dad. That was Art. Her gymnastics class was P.E. Traveling across the US, Europe, Asia counted for History. Math came into play when she started shopping in earnest.

Practically speaking, I loosely followed an Oak Meadow curriculum for kindergarten and first grade. By third grade, I started her on a math program (Saxon Math) so that she could enter public school if she wanted to. She participated in swim team, soccer, and gymnastics for seven years. She also dabbled in piano, theater, voice lessons, ceramics, etc. we were able to do so many team sports and lessons in the afternoons because our mornings were so relaxed. Bella was very social and loved group sports, but ended up being a serial monogamist in terms of friendships; she had one best friend for the first 5 years of life, and then another for the next 7, until we moved away from Joshua Tree.

We also attended every homeschooling conference we could find in California, none of which appear to exist anymore (The Link Conference in LA and Waldorf Home Education in northern CA), happily, many new ones have sprouted up.

Bella did go to fourth grade in public school. It was mostly my doing, because I thought she should have at least an idea of what went on in elementary school. I choose the school and teacher, and happened to have enough influence in the school district to make that happen.

I was happy to see though that she approached public school as a homeschooling adventure, and did very well by all accounts.

Then, she decided that her social peers were in the grade above her. So, she dropped out of school in order to complete 5th and 6th grade in one year through the I.C.E. program. I.C.E. was our district’s way of handling homeschoolers – Bella was a public school student doing the public school textbook work, but at home at her own pace. Bella’s pace was to do all her work as soon as she received it (usually within two days) so she could have the rest of the week free.

The following year, Bella entered 7th grade. Was it hard socially? Not for her. She was class president that year (ran on the platform that all the bathroom stalls needed to have hooks for backpacks and shelves for books) and also winter princess. As I mentioned earlier, Bella was a social girl and we lived in a small town. But things like running for student government, I considered a direct result of her homeschooling gumption: she heard about it, and thought, I can make decisions to help improve that school? That sounds like a cool thing, and just went for it.

Ultimately, that was the most important thing Bella got out of homeschooling. She believed in herself and understood that anything she wanted to learn was HERS TO LEARN.

*Whoops, sorry for the bragging. That was an unintended portion of my post.

 

 

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Holy Jim Trail – Winter 2012

Plenty of creek crossing makes this everybody's favorite hike.

Our boys know how to find a proper stick.

What the creek looks like without boys - peaceful, ain't it?

The boys barely noticed that grown-ups were around, so engrossed were they in the mysteries of the woods.

The way home was just as fun. Can't wait to go back.

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Japanese Pictorial Ikats at the Fowler Museum

The indigo blue of blue jeans may be as American as an apple pie, but a small room at the Fowler Museum shows that indigo blue is also as Japanese as a kimono or futon. This focused exhibition is a selection of Japanese e-gasuri, cloth made through the art of ikat. Ikat is the reverse of tie-dye and resist-dying is used to put patterns on the yarn which then create astonishing well-planned images on the cloth as it is woven. The fabric was generally woven into lengths of 12 meters (the length required to make a kimono), but as the cloth was intended for daily practical use, the works here are mainly the remnants of used kimonos and futon covers from the late 18th century, which have been carefully dissembled. After examining the meticulous work required for the delightful images ranging from simple hatchwork to koi languidly swimming across the weave, there is a fresh appreciation for the intact kimonos and futon covers in the room (Fowler Museum, Los Angeles).

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Clean Cleanse Debrief

Chad and I successfully completed a full 21 days of the clean cleanse.

and with very little cheating.

We both lost about ten pounds (me a little less, Chad a little more) and our stomachs and digestive system felt good. Dropping the caffeine was harder as I’d imagined; I had bad headaches for the better part of the week. My reaction made me feel like a remorseful junkie.

We decided that the cleanse was a good thing and started swearing that we were going to do it every six months. We started rereading all the bits about what to do after you’ve done a cleanse.

It turned out there is more to the program than just the 21-day cleanse, which is, that while your body is so clean, you take advantage of the situation by re-introducing eliminated foods ONE AT A TIME EVERY THREE DAYS.

There are so many foods to pick from! And it’s not always easy to segregate the foods. For instance, you can’t introduce wheat with cookies, because you might not have introduced eggs, sugar, or dairy.

A list of foods we hadn’t been eating: wheat, dairy, sugar, oranges, strawberries, bananas, tomatoes, eggs, peppers, corn, potatoes, alcohol, coffee, chocolate.

We realized that we weren’t prepared, neither emotionally nor physically, to get off the cleanse so slowly. We were ready to binge!

To do the clean cleanse properly, you end up doing it many more days than 21, because you’re eating from the elimination diet while you slowly re-introduce foods. To gradually introduce the above would take 42 additional days.

So, we’re started over. After a month of general gluttony, we’re back on the elimination diet, which means we’re doing a cleanse at half mast. Our breakfasts are smoothies (we never stopped that part); and lunch and dinner are from the elimination diet foods only. we are maintaining a 12-hour digestion window between dinner and breakfast.

This time, we’re cleansing just enough to re-introduce foods, and instead of starting with high-suspicion foods, we’re starting with the least suspect. Tomatoes tomorrow night.

 

 

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Beginnings and Ends

Hello, My name is Jeannie and I like to begin things. It’s really, really hard for me to finish things. I also suffer from the related affliction of procrastination.

It’s just that the idea of something has, let’s face it, the potential to be perfect, while the finished product so often is not. I like to live in the glow-y warm haze of ideal perfection, imagining how wonderful that sage green alpaca vest is going to look on my dad; not, “why is the ribbing around my arm so wavy?”

So far, in 2012, I have completed FIVE KNITTING PROJECTS. That’s a major accomplishment for me (even though three of those projects were on the brink of completion at the end of 2011).

Project 1: Mom’s shawl

Project 2: Dad’s vest (second try, he didn’t like the color of the first vest I made)

Projects 3, 4, 5: Three pairs of bubble gum pink sock slippers for my sister and her two little daughters.

So that leaves me in a quandary. Does this give me license to start a new project?

My heart screams, “YESSSS!”

My head sighs,”But there are so many projects left to go…”

I generally keep about one to two dozen projects aloft at any one given moment. Some of the overlap is understandable, because one needs a quick little project that can fit in a purse, and bigger projects for at home while watching oscar-nominated films, and then too, birthdays and special occasions pop up and require rush status. But, admittedly, a large part of this is that it is painful for me to finish a project. Not pleasurable as some people find. I had an ache in my gut when I put the last of my new year’s cards in the post today. And that’s the first time I’ve actually mailed all my cards within the year intended since 1993 (when Bella was born).

After some tea, and some thought, I made a decision today: I will use this momentum to finish two more quick easy projects (Bella and Christian’s socks for Easter baskets) and then start a new baby vest for a yet-unborn new niece or nephew. Chad’s sister is pregnant!

Maybe, just maybe, I’ll buy some yarn too. Shhh, don’t tell my mom, she thinks I already have enough for my lifetime. That’s so untrue! Anyway, I delight in the anticipation of future projects from my yarn stash…THAT is a pleasure.

 

 

 

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It’s Viral

I stayed home with my sick kid today and as my co-instructor also had a sick kid, Forest Kindie was canceled today for the first time.

As Christian is now so fond of saying, his eyes are all gummed up. He has pink eye, but he doesn’t.

From what I understand, bacterial conjunctivitis is the pink eye we all know and fear: massively itchy pink eyes, very contagious, and no other symptoms. It is commonly treated with antibiotic eye drops.

Christian has a viral version; which in layperson’s language, he has a cold or a flu that is manifesting through his eyes and other parts of his body (fever at night, cancre sores at back of throat, painful barking cough). Antibiotics are of no help here. But like most colds and flus, it should be short-lived, and indeed, Christian’s eyes were gummed shut only yesterday morning. Today they’ve had a bit of goop in the inner corner once or twice. The whites of his eyes are not red, though he did have red puffy circles around his eyes yesterday, almost like he’d been crying or suffering from allergies. He IS contagious as long as his eyes are red and oozing, which is why the doctor thought he might be contagious today, and why I called in sick, but I think he is mostly now recovering.

The timeline went like this:

Sunday – he appeared energetic and happy, with a little bit of a drippy nose in just one nostril

Sunday night – he started a barking cough and woke up crying several times through the night.

Monday – Chad was also not feeling well (stinging eyes, sensitivity to the light, and general malaise) so he called in sick and I went to forest kindergarten by myself (*sad*). During the day Christian hardly seemed sick, although he was still coughing.

Monday night – Christian woke repeatedly crying again. And spiked a fever in the middle of the night that was gone by morning.

Tuesday morning – Christian woke with his eyes fused shut by goop. I canceled all my plans and made an appointment with Dr. Bob Sears in San Clemente.

Chad and I went back-and-forth just a little bit, because it would have been easier and cheaper to run into the urgent care at bottom of our street. HOWEVER, I felt confident that Christian would be prescribed antibiotics WHETHER OR NOT they were going to be useful (I believe that antibiotics are over prescribed and over-used) If it was pink eye, I wanted it diagnosed properly by a pediatrician who was loathe to over-prescribe meds, so in the end we coughed up the $60 for sick visit and went in. (Dr. Bob is out-of-network, and makes you file all your own insurance claims. We love him, but are grateful to only have to see him once a year…)

Wednesday – Christian would not appear sick to most people. His energy and mood were good; we did a bunch of spring planting/transplanting and porch cleaning – he even went down and rode his balance bike for a while.

I anticipate an excellent deep night of sleep. And hope for a bright-eyed boy in the morning.

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Sorority Insight

I have still shaking my head in disbelief at how much Bella has benefited from being a part of a sorority. Any class, teacher, job, or association at UCLA she’s interested in, there is a Delta Gamma sister who can help her out by giving advice or by introducing her to the right people.

She’s even gotten involved in the governing body at school, because the president happens to be a Delta Gamma (or “DG sister” – yes, they really do use that kind of terminology).
I believe in doing favors for friends. A sorority is a formalized network of friends, who are committed to supporting one another and believe in doing charitable work.

Here is an example of the kind of letter she gets in her email box:
From: XXXXXXX XXXXX <xxxxxxx@gmail.com>
Date: February 27, 2012 10:29:17 PM PST
To: DeltaGamma@lists.ucla.edu
Subject: [DeltaGamma] Medical Assistant Job Opportunity

Hey guys!!

I’m leaving my job by the end of March and I am helping my boss find a replacement for me. Dr. XXXXXX is a pretty well-known dermatologist and needs a front/back office medical assistant in his Beverly Hills practice every Friday and every other Monday 9:15-5:00. The other days of the week are not an option because he works out of his other office those days. I absolutely LOVE going to work and I’ve learned so so so much from him and the other people I work with. If you want to learn, which has always been my mindset, he is an amazing teacher and is very willing to let you try things! I’m really sad I have to leave the job but it’s not working with my schedule anymore. He wants a DELTA GAMMA to pass this wonderful job opportunity too; XXXXX XXXXX  (graduated last year) held this job before me and I’m pretty sure another girl held it before her. He’s the most friendly man you will ever meet and he loves the whole sorority thing and would love it if someone I knew could take the job after me.
I work with two other great women who will also teach you so much about the medical field, billing, front desk work, and really anything you want to know. They have become some of my great friends and I’m really sad to go! Some of my responsibilities in the back office including rooming patients, bandaging after mole removals, preping patients for cosmetic procedures (like numbing!), writing prescriptions, drawing up shots/botox/fillers, and answering patient questions. In the front office I’m responsible for answering the phone, preparing charts, scheduling appoints, taking payment, and greeting patients.
This is a big commitment (he wants the new hire to work for at least 1 year including over the summer). If classes are an issue Mondays or Fridays, this position will not work out for you. I had to rely on XXXXXX for notes during the classes that I missed so if you are willing to do that pleaseeee email me! You do not need to be a science major but it helps a lot and it’s such great experience and looks SO good on a resume. I was also able to shadow the doctor and his physician’s assistant for so many hours over the summer and you will be able to too!

So let me sum it up:
Job: medical assistant
When: Every Friday & every other Monday 9:15-5:00, starting April 2 (first day of Spring quarter)
Where: XXXXXXX Dr. in Beverly Hills (down the street from Sprinkles cupcakes:))

The position is paid 🙂 PLEASE contact me if you are the slightest bit interested. You do not need a car because the bus takes less than 10 minutes to get there!
Email me at XXXXXXX@gmail.com or text me (XXX)XXX-XXXX if you have any questions. If you’re interested I will set up an interview time for you.

Thanks so much for reading!

ITBest be jumping on this amazing opportunity,
XXXXXX XXXXX
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Currently Obsessed with Kale

One bunch of "dinosaur" kale, washed and mostly dried.

Yes, I know: kale is pretty trendy these days. But that’s okay, eating more kale is never going to be bad for anybody.

After cutting out the stiff stalk, I cut most leaves into 3 pieces: two skinny from the sides of the stalk and the leafy top.

Today I bought four organic bunches at Sprout’s. The bagger knowingly nodded at the lasinto bunches and said, “Kale chips?”
I nodded, “Yes.”
“Dehydrator?”
When I said that I made them in my oven, he lost interest.

I have made them in somebody else’s dehydrator, and they were good that way also. In the oven is easier, faster, and more delicious (albeit, less nutrition and less enzymes).
I have made four batches in four days. I can’t eat enough of this stuff.

2T olive oil, 1T miso, 1T vinegar - nothing was measured, just splashed and scooped.

KALE CHIPS
The kale must be washed and dried. Then the stems should be cut out. Cut the leafy part into large sections.
I made a dressing. This is a recipe from a friend; I think she got it off epicurious. I mixed 2T olive oil (costco organic) with 1T miso (white) and 1T vinegar (red wine). Then I tossed it with the kale.
Spread loosely on a cookie sheet. Put in a 170 oven (that’s the lowest mine goes). Stir it around gently once in a while. Eat a few crispy bits.
Takes a couple hours, so it’s a good activity to have going on while you’re having a home day.

One bunch makes a small batch. The chips are surprisingly delicate, but satisfying. As one friend has admitted,"These are BETTER than potato chips!"

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Have shovel, will dig

Some people go to the beach for long walks. Some go to watch the sun set or to look for migrating gray whales.

Not my family. We go to the beach to dig.

Last week, my husband made a bit of a spectacle of himself after Christian wrecked his tunnel through the sand. Apparently, the damp sand conditions there at Crystal Cove made for a “once-in-a-lifetime” opportunity for tunnel hole construction, and not only did I miss taking the right video, but Christian and I both failed to recognize the importance of the occasion.

Hence, I was mildly apprehensive about returning to Crystal Cove today EVEN THOUGH Chad assured me that his new man-sized shovel would make everything better.

Turned out that conditions WERE STILL PERFECT for tunnel-building.

Christian and I did nothing to break Chad’s concentration, except to feed him bits of beef jerky and milk chocolate from time to time.

Then, when construction was complete, I assisted with the camera (Chad generously overlooked the fact that I’d forgotten the real camera and had to use my phone) and Christian was prepped on his lines. Yes, and after SIX takes, we got an acceptable video. I pointed out that even professional child actors probably needed that many takes; still, Chad grumbled that he would expect a little more COOPERATION from a paid actor…

P.S. I have no idea why Christian is supposed to yell ” Parachute!” when he emerges from the tunnel.

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Chad’s Top 11 of ’11

  • Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy

    The Adventures of Tintin

    A Separation

    The Descendants

    Tree Of Life

    Midnight In Paris

    Attack The Block

    X-Men: First Class

    Drive

    Fast Five

    Bridesmaids

Just realized that the Oscar’s are this Sunday. Anybody (who has cable) want company? We come with appetizers!

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