Safe to Watch with the Kids

My brother-in-law sent me this youtube video, which is titled, “The Most Intense Tae Kwon Do Fight Ever.”
But the only thing that might get hurt are your laughing muscles.
It was especially funny to me, because me and my sister and my brother are all black belts in Tae Kwon Do and sparred many a-time in class and in tournaments.

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Dear Santa

Christian still "needs" a shield. He got a great sword from the Elves' Faire (though he says he still "needs" a longer sword).

For the past few years, I’ve been the delegated holiday gift shopper for both my parents and my brother. My parents give me an allowance of $100 per grandkid and $200 per adult child. It’s pretty fun to spend.

This year my sister (in Melbourne) wrecked the fun a little by deciding on her own gift from my parents – she got a Le Creuset pot – which I grudgingly admit is a good use of parental present money. I may do the same.

For all the little grandkids, I simply went on a clothing shopping spree at Hannah Andersson, because it’s just fun to have one complete set of functional nice clothes for the winter holidays. My 4-year old niece Noi naa is getting fringed suede boots, a fur vest, and a rainbow cardigan. My 1 1/2-year old niece, Leela, is getting a dress, leggings/pants, and a matching rainbow cardigan. She is getting a little less, but I imagine that one day she’ll also be wearing that adorable fur vest…

My brother likes me to spend all his gift money on presents for his department. I’ll do like I did last year – send him 6 or so gifts from Costco for him to play steal-a-gift with his office mates.

Bella is getting something from her wish list:

  1. juicy sweatshirt in black / petite – from Chad + me
  2. lululemon yoga pants – from Songbae
  3. nice jeans– $100 gift card to Nordstrom’s, which works at the Rack
  4. true religions with simple back pocket, straight leg or skinny, size 24 (like this but probably cheaper at loehmans, nordstrom rack, or outlet mall)
  5. delta gamma sweatshirt xs
  6. rainbows in sierra brown (tan) thick strap , size 7
  7. bras
  8. backpack maybe

(My thoughts on what she might need: yoga mat, car insurance $$ for Dec., external hard drive, decent carry-on suitcase…)

Chad has already worked through most of his own wish list. His stuff is wrapped and under the tree:

apple tv $100 ($89) – with contest winnings

bike helmet $50 ($28)

cycling gloves $50 – from Sue’s family

shoes $75 ($60) – from Songbae

raincoat $100 ($108) – from me

socks $25 ($28)

headphones $50 ($20) – from Songbae

sun hat $30

Chad won the $150 pinned to the fridge by hitting his goal weight of 150 pounds the day before Thanksgiving. How close was the contest you ask? I was only five pounds away from MY goal weight when we started, and now I’m seven pounds away. yup.

Christian is getting another wooden knight and horse from Songbae, the Millennium Falcon Lego set from Santa, and a wooden ironing board and iron from me (plus crocheted chain maille in his stocking). Songbae (via me) is also getting Noi naa a down jacket, princess books, and SmartWool sock. Leela is getting wooden penguin figures, SmartWool socks, and a sweet pair of toy mice sleeping in a large matchbox.

And I can’t make my mind up about what I should get from anybody. I have from my parents, from my brother, and from Chad. Plus I have $80 in Costco checks to redeem and $60 contest win money laying on my desk. If I were not an Earthroots employee, I’d be asking for more Earthroots classes!

  • new pair of eyeglasses OR sunglasses (but need to wait until the new year rolls through for my insurance to cover part of the frames)
  • running sneakers (from my husband)
  • hiking boots (got a great pair from the last swap party)
  • stainless steel immersion blender (with Costco money)
  • set of field guides for Western US (mammal, tree, tracks, birds…)
  • lulumon yoga pants and top
  • clothes in general, especially jeans that fit
  • Le Creuset pot (big ones at TJ Maxx – seconds!)
  • enough Noro yarn to knit MYSELF a sweater (from Sue!!)
  • an iron (mine broke) – used Costco $$
  • yarn winder (Sierra moved away with hers)
  • yoga classes (have been trying the free classes at CorePowerYoga at town center)
  • subscription to the New Yorker or ArtForum or Cooks Illustrated
  • a second EarthBox (getting one via worktrade through EarthRoots)
  • primitive skills campout in AZ in Feb ($300)
  • house cleaning (tempted to hire Kinga, my friend’s housekeeper, for a day)
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Letter to Christian at 3 1/2 years


Dear Christian,

You are currently infatuated with anything to do with Star Wars, Legos, swords, knights, armor, shields, space ships, guns, castles, fighting, sticks, stick-fighting, play-fighting, wrestling, running, hiding, and our two boy neighbors. Last night in the shower you showed us your karate moves too. Are you a boy or what?

Older boys are very appealing to you. There are many adults you like, male and female.

You have become creative about making your costumes. If you are not wearing goggles (which makes you a podracer) then you are walking around with a basket over your head shouting that you are Iron Man. The diffuser hair dryer attachment makes a great spaceship gun extension to your right arm.

I think being at forest kindergarten two days a week has made you stronger physically. You have been sick less this year than last, and your appetite is healthy. You’ve started to really sleep hard at night and for your nap. It’s no surprise because you run around like a maniac when we’re at forest kindergarten. Two days ago you cried when it was time to go. You especially love Big Oak Canyon where we camped for Martinmas. Don’t worry, we’re taking you back there this weekend for Acorn + Fire Family Day. We’ll bring both of our bow drills and practice making a fire. I even have some dried mugwort leaves set aside to act as a coal extender. Dad will ride his bike up and join us later.

Right now you’re at Target with your dad. He won a no-Target-for-the-month-of-November contest and now he’s there to spend his winnings on LEGOS.

Another Earthroots instructor aptly described you as a “real firecracker.” Yup. Fire cracker.

I love you.

Love,

Mama

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Holiday Photo Rejects

I’ve always been a stickler for holiday cards. It’s a way of reaching out to friends and family at least once a year – catching up and extending good wishes.
They’ve become more painful now that I have an extremely self-conscious female teenager who vetoes pretty much every photo I like, combined with the frustrations of trying to photograph her with her very active three-year old brother.
We’ve now attempted four separate photo shoots.
It’s painful.
I missed the 20% off sale at tinyprints.
And I missed the $5 off coupon at Costco.
But Christian is making out like a bandit (Lego prizes for cooperating…)
I’m resigned to joining the hordes in the Costco photo line in three weeks time. (Bella is now gone for two more weeks.)
I can always fall back to the French tradition of sending New Year’s cards some time in early 2012.
Arggggh.

 

Tell me, does Bella look “funny” in this picture? This one was my top pick this year, which I am “not allowed” to use.

HER top pick was taken at the Spectrum mall at night time.  *grimace* At least in this one he is wearing some of the new clothes purchased for the occasion.

These are a few that didn’t make the cut…You’ll notice we’ve given up dressing Christian any differently and given in to his demands of being photographed with his babies, Baby Leela and Sterling.

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Beginning the Day with Thanks

I am thankful to have smart, fun friends.

I am thankful for having a loving devoted husband who lets me pretend I wear the pants.

And who works so that I can stay at home.

I am thankful for two healthy beautiful kids – who are growing up with a strong sense of curiosity about their world.

I am thankful for a generous, loving extended family who love to play and communicate with Christian and Bella.

I am thankful for a strong working body.

I am thankful for our access to the outdoors.

I am thankful for abundant rain and the green everywhere.

I am thankful for the arugula I am growing in a window box.

I am thankful for the community I’ve found in this corner of the world.

I am thankful for pumpkin pie.

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Art Day in Culver City

When I first entered Chuck Close's show, I was irritated by his never-ending pointillism portraits.


I was finding his colors brash and ugly.


But then I took off my glasses and spent some time with them.


Then, I had to admit that Chuck is a fabulous colorist and incredibly PERSISTENT.


We had delicious mole negro at the "Oaxaca Restaurant." That building in front is nothing more than a dressed-up carport on the sidewalk.


We climbed into Mie Olise's installation and watched the ocean by sailboat.



I was most struck by Brenna Youngblood's work that day and wrote about it.


This was Christian's favorite work of the day - a gun mandela in tile. He says he wants two of the small ones in water guns.


Also loved Jen Pack's chiffon "light boxes." Holy sari-quilted craziness.

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YMCA Asks Breastfeeding Mother to Leave Play Area

I was shocked to hear somebody at that our local YMCA could be so ignorant as to really believe that children should not be exposed to breastfeeding. But Maura was really asked to leave and nurse in the locker room last week. We need to DO SOMETHING! For our kids! Here is Maura’s story.

Angry doesn’t cut it. Livid is almost there but I can’t explain it. I am shaking, literally physically shaking at the thought of what just happened to me. At the injustice. Not so much to me, because I can handle it. I am an advocate for my children and I will speak out. But for everyone else.

When a woman is told she cannot nurse her baby it is such a violation. An atrocity. What? I can’t feed and comfort my own baby? The child my body made, delivered, and continues to nourish? I am proud of all of that. Apparently some other people think it is something that shouldn’t be seen, it shameful, or gross. I think it’s gross when a fake breast is put in a baby’s mouth, but I’ve never heard of anyone being told they weren’t allowed to give their baby a bottle.

I was giving our local YMCA a try to see if my 2 girls, 14months and 3, would be able to play a little bit while I worked out. I wanted to introduce them gradually as they are not used to being away from mommy so I wanted to help them get comfortable in their environment. “What better way to comfort and soothe an anxious baby than to nurse her?” I thought. As I began to get into position with my baby in my lap on the floor where I had been playing with her, an employee immediately approached me and said, “Are you going to feed your baby there?” I said yes with a puzzled look, I’ve really never questioned or been questioned about where I can nurse my child.

“You can’t do that here. You need to go to the locker room. There are other children here and they should not have to see that. There are windows that people could be looking in and watching you too, we can’t have that here.”

Wait. What???? What did you just say to me? Did you really say that?

I grabbed my children up out of that room as quickly as I possibly can. You don’t want other children exposed to breastfeeding? I don’t want my children exposed to people who think breastfeeding isn’t a normal, natural, wonderful thing to do. And those other children? If they haven’t been exposed to it already, it’s really about time they were. We are mammals after all. Mammary glands are what sets us apart from the other animal kingdoms. I say let’s just go ahead and embrace that.

Of course with my ranting on the way out, administrators assured me that it is not the official stance of the YMCA to not allow woman to nurse their babies. She told me it was my right as a mother. Oh, I know, and I will stand up for my rights. But what if I weren’t me? What if I were a new, first time mother to a 6 week old baby? Would that incident, while I tried to nurse my newborn, so embarrassed about being told to leave, hid in the locker room, then quit nursing a week later because it became too hard to hide all the time? This is why these injustices need to be called out. It is for the women who can’t or won’t speak up.

All said and done, official stance of the YMCA or not, I feel that my rights were violated, and I, for one, will never be stepping foot in an establishment that employs people with that attitude again.

Christian with his friend Kyla. Maura was nursing Kyla's younger sister, Malia. Pic by Corrina Murdy

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November Circle

Here are the songs, transitions, and blessings for November 2011. There are a couple of lantern songs since Martinmas is November 11. We’re celebrating with a camp-out at Oak Canyon. woo hoo!

Follow, Follow Me
Follow, follow me
To the ring of the fairies
Follow, follow me,
Where the fairies dance and sing.
Gather with you now
All the magic you can carry,
As we circle ‘round the dancing fairy ring.

Now Look Around
Now look around
We’ve made a ring
By holding hands you see.
Yes, here I am,
And there you are,
Together we are we.

Four Directions Chant
Good morning to the East where the sun rises in the morning.
Good morning to the West where the sun sets at night.
Good morning to the South where the land is warm.
Good morning to the North where the land is cold.
And good morning to the Earth which is my home.

Morning Song from Betty Jones’s A Child’s Seasonal Treasury
Good morning dear earth. (Crouch, touch ground)
Good morning dear sun. (Rise and extend arms to sky)
Good morning dear rocks and the flowers every one. (Crouch and knock fists on ground, then wave fingers and sway hands for flowers)
Good morning dear beasts. (Remain crouching, put hands on head for horns)
And the birds in the trees. (Flap arms while rising to stand)
Good morning to you and good morning to me. (Bow to others twice, then stand upright and cross arms over chest.)

Autumn Leaves
Twirling in the autumn wind
Round and round the bright leaves spin

Rise and fall without a sound
Autumn leaves float o’er the ground

Spinning round in autumn breezes
One last twirl before all freezes

Yellow and orange, gold and red
Spiraling toward their winter bed

Mountain Lion
Mountain lion wakes at dawn (Sleep on floor and wake to all fours)
And growls with a toothy yawn (Arch back and growl)
Stretches in the morning sun (Stretch with rounded back)
He knows another days begun (Arch back and growl)
Reaching forth with mighty claws(Stretch arms and hands forward, one at a time)
He opens wide his fearsome jaws(Arch back and growl)
His back is arched from tail to mane(Stretch with rounded back)
His roar resounds across the plain(Arch back and growl)

Lanterne (in German)
Lanterne, lanterne
Sonne und monde und sterne
Brenne auf mien licht
Brenne auf mien licht
Abbe nur miene liebe lanterne nicht

Tall, Tall Tree
This is my trunk, I’m a tall, tall tree
In the winter the snowflakes fall on me
I glisten, I glisten

This is my trunk, I’m a tall, tall tree
In the spring time the flowers bloom on me
I bloom, I bloom

This is my trunk, I’m a tall, tall tree
In the summer the breezes blow through me
I bend, I bend

This is my trunk, I’m a tall, tall tree
In the autumn the apples grow on me
They drop, They drop

Autumn Leaves
The trees are saying, “Goodbye” to their leaves
As they flutter and float and fly in the breeze
All golden, orange, and red, they sink softly off to bed.
On Mother Earth’s breast rests each leafy head.

Down with Darkness by E. Amiran

Down with darkness, up with light;
Up with sunshine, down with night.

Each of us is one small light,
But together we shine bright.

Go away, darkest, blackest night,
Go away, give way to light!

The Back Song
Dot, dot, dot
And a big question mark.
Little spiders crawl up your back
Little spiders crawl down your back
Little spiders crawl up your arms
Little spiders crawl down your arms
Cool breeze, tight squeeze.
Egg on the head and the yolk drips down.
Creepy crawlies, creepy crawlies…
Gotcha.

TRANSITION SONGS AND BLESSINGS

The Story Song
Anything can happen
In a fairy tale or rhyme
When you say the magic words
Once a upon a time

Handwashing Song
Time to wash our hands,
Time to wash our hands

Welcome, welcome
Welcome to our table
Welcome, welcome
We all join hands together. (We sing this until every one is at the table)

Snack Time Blessing
Earth who gives to us this food.
Sun who makes it ripe and good.
Sun above and earth below,
Our loving thanks to you we show.
Blessings on our meal.

Quiet Time Poem
Sitting, sitting quietly
I wonder what I may see-
What sound or smell the wind may bring…
I stop to notice everything.

Breathing, breathing calm and slow,
I let myself get in the flow
Of what is happening in this place
When I keep a slower pace.

Lunch Gratitude
Bless this food and everyone who made this meal possible. Let it remind us of our connection to the Earth, the Sun, the Water, the Air, all those who came before us and those who are yet to be born. May we keep them in mind in all we do.

CLOSING CIRCLE
Who will come to my wee ring?
My wee ring
My wee ring
Who will come to my wee ring?
And make it a little bit bigger?

The earth stands firm beneath my feet. The sun shines high above. Here I stand, so straight and strong – all things to know and love

I can turn myself and turn myself and stop me when I will. I can reach high on my tippy toes and hold myself quite still.

The Earthroots Tree Song
Standing like a tree with my roots down deep,
Branches wide and open.
Come down the rain,
Come down the sun,
Come down the fruits to the heart that is open.

Rainbow Bridge Song
Goodbye, goodbye
Blessings on your way.
May the sun shine bright
In your hearts today.

P.S. This song is not part of the circle, but we’ll be singing it for Martinmas

With a Lantern in the Hand by Eberhard Arnold (lyrics) and Marianne Zimmermann (music)

With a lantern in the hand,

Joyfully go through the land.

One to the right,

One to the left;

We must show to all the light!

Throughout the land!

As one band!

Light —- in hand!

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Day in the Life of Monday Forest Kindergarten

The teachers' kids playing on their favorite pile of dirt (a compacted mole hill) before opening circle.

Opening circle

Investigating coyote scat during wilderness exploration time. What has it been eating? There's lots of gray fur and small bones.

Main lesson: Each week Caroline writes a new story about that takes place in the natural history of Orange County.

Practicing our letters in the creekbed.

Not pictured: group snack, handwashing, quiet sit, game, lunch…

It’s pretty fun for a job.

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Modern Antiquities show at the Getty

Drawing from its own strength and its own collection, the new show, “Modern Antiquities” at The Getty Villa cannily enters the Pacific Standard Time (PST) conversation as an unofficial “prequel” exhibition, juxtaposing the works of four major twentieth-century artists (mainly on international loan) alongside ancient art (primarily from the permanent collection). Pablo Picasso (1881-1973), Giorgio de Chirico (1888-1978), Fernand Léger (1881-1955), and Francis Picabia (1879-1953) are connected as peers, friends, mentors, and also by the fact that Léonce Rosenberg served as a dealer to each of them, but mainly by the fact that each made important, radical even, contributions to the art movements of their time. Reflecting disparate, but intertwined threads through Surrealism, Dada, Cubism, and Futurism, symbols and echoes from the antique past emerge. All the works are from 1906 to 1936, just prior to the PST time frame of 1945-1980, and in a European context.
While hindsight is often touted as being 20/20, it is also susceptible to change; in recent years the influence of Marcel Duchamp on modernity has grown to such proportions that his peers seem antiquated in comparison. But a focused look at a selection of works from Picasso, de Chirico, Léger, and Picabia, in the context of transforming and reinventing antiquity, reveals how deeply these artists were working through not only their own classical instruction, but how they were using these images for leverage into the next idea – perhaps similar to the way American artists often find themselves working through the Minimalism of the 60’s and 70’s.
De Chirco’s engagement with antique imagery is obvious, especially in his well-known oil paintings of deserted Italian piazzas from 1912-13. At the time of these paintings, de Chirico had already moved to Paris and had made the acquaintance of Picasso (and Apollinaire) and was involved in a metaphysical expression of his life and ideas. A recurring motif is a statue of the reclining figure of Ariadne. A real 2nd century marble sculpture of “Sleeping Ariadne” strategically situated near de Chirico’s works gives us pause to think through more about de Chirico’s choice. Much attention has been given to the strange and unsettled quality of his abandoned squares; and to the juxtaposition of anachronistic objects, such as the puffing locomotive and the clock, to the classical architecture. Less attention given to the choice of Ariadne: she who provided Theseus with a ball of red thread to find his way out of the Minotaur’s labyrinth was likely a compelling draw for de Chirico, who insisted on the metaphysical content of his paintings. She is the symbol of the link between deeper internal subconscious meaning and the outside. Claiming the Hellenic figure for his own iconography, does not diminish the strength of de Chirico’s role in portraying surreal dreamscapes.
Indeed, the impetus behind this exhibition seems to be a proving that drawing from antiquity does not imply conservative regression. Rather, as in the Léger’s Nude on a Red Background, 1927, the smooth robust and stylized marble statues of the 1st century, provide merely a substrate, from which highly mechanized robotic beauties are born. In contrast to the previously idealized human form, both Léger and Picabia relished the machine.
Presaging contemporary appropriation, these four artists have a foot in more than one world, and are working through the many new treatises of their time. Not only is the aesthetic impact of classical beauty and history clear in this exhibition, but also the way that the modern interpretation of antique imagery has shaped our contemporary experience of the same. As in all art history, the old is subsumed and digested to make way for the new. So often, modern art is regarded in context of subsequent art, but here is the opportunity to experience modern art in relation to the classical past. The Getty Villa itself is a reconstruction of an ancient Roman house. The exhibition will be accompanied by a catalog by Christopher Green and Jens M. Daehner.

Sleeping Ariadne Roman, 2nd century Marble H: 45.7 x W: 86.4 x D: 31.1 cm (18 x 34 x 12 1/4 in.) San Antonio Museum of Art, gift of Gilbert M. Denman, Jr., 86.134.149 Photo: Peggy Tenison VEX.2011.2.30

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