Gordon Matta-Clark Retrospective

Aw geez. I was thinking about planning a little ski trip to Brianhead, Utah for spring break the first week of April, but now it’s looking like I’d rather go to NYC and see all the art there right now. I especially want to catch the Gordon Matta-Clark retrospective at the Whitney, which is there until June 3. Read Ouroussoff’s review in the NYTimes here. Or I could stay at home and actually start to figure out the rest of my life- you know, organize a place to live and find a job.

By then my thesis will be turned in – what’s the expression my friend Laura used? She asked me something like, What’s your absolute against-the-wall deadline? (Sounds like the name of a stiff drink in a literary bar – I’ll have an “Against the Wall.” hmm, just realized I don’t know how to punctuate drink names – guess that’s something I never had to teach a middle schooler.)

That deadline would be April 1, 2007.

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andrea zittel coincidence

This is me checking an art work on Andrea Zittel’s property last year at the hi-desert test sites. It is a working phone booth in the middle of the desert. I was very entertained and promptly called myself. My caller ID showed Andrea Zittel’s home number! I actually already had her number, because I had introduced myself to her in Walmart a year or two ago. I recognized her from her photo in Women Artists (by Taschen). That was the first time I ever introduced myself to an artist stranger like that. She is part of the recent wave of artists from NYC who have “discovered” the desert (well, it’s been a few years now).

Her work often explores domesticity, daily living, routine and art – so her actual house and the buildings around it are sometimes more interesting than the art objects/installations that she shows. My favorite part of that year’s hi-desert test sites was not one of art pieces scattered throughout the desert or the parties in far-flung cabins, but her new concrete courtyard sunk into the side of a hill just in front of her house.

That’s a lovely space – her office is in the center building. When I peeked in I was a little freaked by her organizational skills; she had shelves and shelves of identical notebooks. It reminded of an art gallery office, which on second thought makes sense. Zittel makes little distinction between office and home, function and form, or house and art installation.

I mentioned coincidence, because I’ve been meaning to post that profile picture for the last few days and today I got a membership email from MOCA letting me know that the show “Andrea Zittel: Critical Space” is opening next week and will be showing at the same time as “Wack! The Feminist Revolution” at the Geffen Contemporary at MOCA.

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Regrettable Moments

There are few things I regret.

I regret being discovered hiding in a closet after I started seeing my ex-boyfriend’s roommate.

I regret sleeping through my friend’s talent show which I had promised to co-emcee.

I regret being exceptionally cruel to a boy in my third grade class.

Strangely enough, I mentioned that boy’s name in my blog several months ago and he found me last week. This was his eloquent email to me:

“Ms Lee,

I was quite startled to find my name in your blog. I was amazed because while teasing me in third grade is one of your regrets, I couldn’t remember you at all. I haven’t forgotten the teasing, mind you, however I hadn’t thought about it in decades.

I pored through your blog compulsively trying to figure out who you are.

Finding your name helped my recollections somewhat, and I vaguely remember you now.

I decided to write because, it would be hard for me to know that this still bothered you at some level, while I put it behind me a long time ago. If you will take my forgiveness, I offer it.

All the best,

_________”

This, and I couldn’t remember how or where I had posted about him. The search engine on my blog couldn’t find him, so I tried Google. To my horror, my post about him (in a comment to my “100 Things About Me”) was the first hit that came up.

With sincere relief that my actions hadn’t irreparably damaged him emotionally, I took the opportunity to write him a sincere apology. Also, I offered to take his name off my blog. (And asked permission to post about it in the next breath!) We corresponded briefly after that, and he thanked me for my apology.

I consider myself lucky; how often are we given the opportunity correct actions that are thirty years old? That is one less stone I will be carrying around in my conscience.

It is interesting to me that all my regrets have to do with disappointing people – myself included.

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The Book Your Church Does Not Want You to Read II

A write-up (be sure to check the additional pages to read the whole story) in the OC Weekly – and Tim made the cover – carrying a wooden cross no less! This is the revamped edition of a much-maligned, now-famous SoCal text made up of various essays pondering religion; Chad’s older sister Lisa did the editing and managed the project.

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The New Pup

I call her Bat-head or Milk Dud.

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wedding cakes

I suppose it was obvious when I was interviewing Songbae’s friend Jennifer about cake-making, that I was considering baking our wedding cake myself. Just because it looked fun! (And because it’s killing me to think about spending $300 on a cake…)

So, I thought I would just straight out ask Jennifer (who made the cake in the pic above – click on it to see other cakes she has made) if she thought it was worth it to pay for a wedding cake, and she replied:

“It is worth every penny to pay someone to do the cake due to the time you spend baking the damn thing alone! for a pretty large cake, in a home oven, you are spending about 8 hours of your day mixing up the batter and baking the various layers. the construction can be a bit challenging even if you have a bit of a clue as to what you are doing. the decorating is of course the best part of all. except for when you have a real picky bride telling you exactly what they want instead of just letting you (me) use the cake as your canvas! i suppose that is why i would probably have trouble going into business for myself. i want to make cakes i want to make! haha. all that being said, wedding cakes are really very expensive these days. you pay per serving, generally, and sometimes you pay way too much (most of the time in my opinion). there are a lot of cake makers out there too with various degrees of skill and talent so it’s a big effort to search for what you like and someone you think can do what you want on a budget. anyway…. ”

And then when I asked specifically about the wedding cakes on her photobucket site, she explained that they were…

“not too terribly difficult, just time consuming. for someone that doesn’t make cakes super often, the hardest part will probably be the frosting. people tell me they have a hard time getting to be a) smooth and b) crumb free! mostly, though, those two were just time consuming. for ian and deb’s cake, i took the friday off before the wedding and did spend 8 hours baking. for sam and julie’s cake, i baked for about 4 hours each on thursday and friday nights before saturday wedding.”

Alright, enough already – I’m not going to bake my own cake, especially in the heat of late June and with guests and family visiting. So, I finally called a local cake-baker. Wendy is an RN with a cake-baking business on the side – she has been making cakes for about fifteen years (and coincidentally she grew up right around where Chad lives in Laguna).

Her cake price is $2.75 a serving with a 100-serving minimum (whoops – better add some folks to the guest list…) I asked for the most basic cake (read: cheapest) and she suggested a three-tier with a 16-inch base, 14-inch middle and 8-inch top, frosted and decorated simply with live flowers. We can choose virtually any flavor for the cake layers (chocolate, spice, lemon, devil’s food cake, german chocolate, mint chip, white or yellow etc) and any kind of decadent filling (bavarian creme, raspberry mousse, peach, pineapple, lemon and coconut creme…). Wow. I’m getting a sugar rush just thinking about it. She also has a 150-year old carrot cake recipe that she says is her specialty; however, that costs slightly more ($3.oo/serving).

So from baking my own cake, I have gone to dreaming about a cake with a carrot cake and cream cheese base, chocolate and raspberry mousse middle, and a top with white/yellow cake with lemon filling. Doesn’t that sound yummy-licious?

[If you decide to try and make your own layered cake see Jennifer’s general directions at another post here.]

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My Best Christmas Present

Sometimes it takes a month or two (or longer) to appreciate a gift. But this one started ahead and stayed ahead. I wear the denim apron Asia made for me every single day. It protects me from everything! I love it.

I am holding my second-favorite gift. It is a bluetooth device in the form of an old-fashioned dial phone receiver. I got it because Songbae gave all his Christmas gifts to me before he left (all of them – he shoved them across the table and said, Here, you’ll get more use out of these things).  I loved that handset, but it didn’t seem very practical because you have to hold it with your hand – and I do the dishes a lot when I talk on the phone. Anyway, I returned it to think.com and got a $39.99 gift certificate. Anybody have a suggestion what I should get? I’m thinking about a gorillapod.

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Debriefing the Oscars

Well, it all went pretty much as expected (and as I predicted) – both Helen Mirrin and Forrest Whittaker sure deserved their best actor awards, and I’m glad that Alan Arkin (grandpa in Little Miss Sunshine) won best supporting over Eddie Murphy. It was great to see Al Gore up on the stage and so enthusiastically received, but frightening to see how much weight he has gained over the years. Watching An Inconvenient Truth is right at the top of my to-do list.

Two decent articles about the evening in the NYTimes today. This one covers Ellen Degeneres and the general feel of the event. And this one runs through all the winners. Between them, you’ll read every funny joke and feel like you were there. (Read about the main after-party here.)

We made fresh guacamole with chips for snacking and mandoo (Korean dumplings) and bin tae ttok (mung bean pancakes) for supper. That’s what you get when you’re Korean in southern cali.

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nice quote about art

This quote by Styrian artist Werner Reiterer arrived in my email today embedded in an eflux ad:

“I believe that art per se is actually always about to develop new rules as to how one may perceive the world”

I’ll admit that I have no idea where Styria is located.

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books rec's from a well-read friend

On Tuesdays Bella likes to go home and sleepover at her friend’s house;  a friend who has TV reception, so that they can watch Desperate Housewives and Gilmore Girls (saved by TiBo). I’ve never watched Desperate Housewives myself, but I have gathered from various raised eyebrows that it is one of the racier T.V. shows going. I know that I have a rep as being a T.V. prude, but you know what? I am fine with just letting her watch what (supposedly) everybody else watches one night a week.

So, Tuesdays have become my writing days. I shoot home from work – get that puppy outside for a spell, make a cup of earl grey and get settled in front of the computer. And impose a one post for one hour of thesis work rule. And one post before I start working, just to get it out of my system.

I asked my friend Laura for some book recommendations, because sooner or later I will have to choose a book for the book club (and remember, it has to be a book I’ve never read). Laura was my childhood best friend from third to seventh grade; and I don’t know if I trust anybody’s opinion on books more. (We were such crazy book worms that we spent our summers having reading contests.)

Her rec’s:

Housekeeping by Marilyn Robinson (she says, if she wrote only one book as good as this one, she would be satisfied…)

Brick Lane or Alentejo Blue by Monica Ali (she knows I’m sucker for the Booker prize winners)

The Virgin Suicides by Jeffrey Eugenides

Norwood or Gingos by Charles Portis

Now I can throw away that ratty little post-it with all my notes on it.

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